Doesn't make any sense?

[Sham]

Hey, Im kinda new to this place so i dont now if there is a thread on this already.

I've got this crush on a girl in my school. Shes funny, intelligent, really beautiful and we had some great chemistry until a couple of weeks ago :/. I sort of asked her if she wanted to go for a walk on day and she agreed until the day after. Im sure she had a good reason why she cancelled but every time we take afterwards she either ignores me or logs off as soon as my message get through.

Don't know whats gone wrong but i can't help to feel that its my fault?

Thanks
Sham

[King Rick]

Sorry man. She's not interested. And you shouldn't have to put up with it. Time to move on. If she doesn't even have the decency to give you an explanation then it's not worth your time.

[wet_suit_one]

What the King said. Of course, you may not have yet figured out that it's a numbers game. Took me awhile to learn that too...

Best of luck to you Sham.

[Sham]

what you mean by numbers?

[EvilEvilKitten]

She isn't interested. Move on.

BTW if you were being pestered by every Tom, Dick and Harry you wouldn't worry about "being decent" either -
you'd expect him to TAKE A HINT.

[theus]

Sham

Its been my experience that women are not always direct in these situations. She is ignoring you hoping that you will take a hint. She may even be seeing someone. Men often face many rejections before they meet a good woman. Take your time get to know a woman before you allow your self to develope feelings for them. BTW im sure there are other attractive women in your school. Get to know some of them as friends and see where things go.

[Sham]

Yh, I guess your right. She sort of told my best mate that I hurried a it bit too much.

[EvilEvilKitten]

Of course we're right!

If you push or rush girl, you appear desperate in her eyes.
No girl likes desperate guys.

You have to be cool but available.

[Sham]

Yh, i get what you mean. Thanks