Jealousy & controlling or Acceptable?

[Sekcboi85]

The thing is: if you don't trust, then why are you even in the relationship?

I can agree to that.

[lnt1103]

Originally Posted by Sekcboi85

Int, you always have a fun story or analogy

What can I say, I'm a dork about some of the methods I choose to get my point across. Wait....hold on....what am I saying....I'm always a dork

Originally Posted by Sekcboi85

I wouldn't even classify that as snooping if it was to get a gift for your man. I would be pleasantly surprised if my girlfriend did that.

Actually, in the interest of FULL disclosure, it could very easily have led to snooping if I wasn't careful. I noticed an email or two while I was in there that concerned me and I wasn't quite sure whether to shut my brain off about it, or try to discuss it. I didn't read them, I didn't need to-the sender and subject line were more than clear enough. I found a very nonchalant way to bring it up to him, since he already knew I'd been in there, he explained it, and it's fine. But it could have been bad if I'd let it get out of hand inside my own head.

[Sekcboi85]

I'm kinda a dork too so I like dorky stories

And you are good for having the emails right in front of you but not opening them. I doubt I would have been that strong. Well, maybe I just have not loved someone to the point where I completely trust them. Still young and stupid