Is he playing/testing me..?

[EvilEvilKitten]

You need to read around the site - lots on that topic already.

[Rouge]

I've been with my partner for a while now, but it was difficult for me to get him there with a bj only in the beginning. Now that I know what he likes and what he doesn't it's a lot easier. He didn't know what he liked at all because he'd only had crap ones! Give it time, keep trying, and read the help topics on this site