any help?

[jayman1086]

theres a girl that goes to my gym and ive noticed her looking at me while she is working out. im kinda shy and ive been rejected a lot, how should i go at trying to get her to talk to me? keep in mind i do actually work out at the gym

[King Rick]

Have you tried approaching her? Ask her if she wants a training partner. Maybe she's waiting for you to come talk to her.

[nuttychick]

Just say Hi and smile, if she wants to talk to you she will...
She may be shy too so just keep doing this everytime you see her..
Try not to rush in ... that is a big put off for woman at the gym

[dancingdoc2]

When she does engage you in conversation, ask an open-ended question of general interest and then stand back and listen. Most women are chatty creatures and given an opportunity and a willing ear will talk it off. All you have to do is take notes and interject questions or comments from time to time.

Show interest, be interesting.

[jayman1086]

even if im all sweaty and all?

[Zr2_EQX]

She will be sweaty too. It is a gym, it is ok.

[EvilEvilKitten]

I cannot stress this enough:

STOP BEING SHY.

Women want men with cojones - so grow a set and to hell with whether she rejects you or not - at least you didn't cave and go sulking off dreaming about 'what if' like some whipped cur with his tail between his legs. The worst she can do is say No and what is that? Nothing! Not like you never heard it before and yet you still live.

[capmandu]

Don't be shy, you will regret it later - trust me. Go up and just introduce yourself. If you have any social IQ at all, you will be able to tell if it is worth pursuing after that introduction. Be confident and positive, and if she is into meeting you, that will impress her. GO 4 IT!