umm why?

[tataa]

So I'm talking to a few guys, none of which I take seriously but I do enjoy the attention. But this one particular guy I'm going use anonymous names here lol.. Let's call him Aiden. So Aiden I don't really think he likes me. For instance, I chilled with him over his house before ( no sexual tension) and I'm kind of shy around guys so I wasn't really talkative. So a few of his friends are over also he doesn't introduce me to any of them. Which I found extremely rude which I planned to tell him the next time he calls but he ended up not calling like he said he would. He hits me up over AIM ( yeah I chat a lot) every once in a blue moon. But he sends mix signals. One minute it's "hey baby" or just "Hey" maybe he just wants me as a friend instead a girlfriend. But when I hanging out with him he kept asking about getting with me. I don't believe we have chemistry but for some reason he's the one always on my mind. What do you think? All opinions are welcomed.

P.S - he's a couple of years younger than me.

[Massdebator]

When i read your post, the only clear message I got was that "Aiden" only contacts you when it's convenient for him. The fact that he didn't introduce you to his friends would irk me as well, and goes to show that he is either socially inept, or views you as someone that won't be around long. How young is this guy anyway (I don't know your age, so the relative age you gave in your post doesn't help)?

You probably only find yourself wanting him, because, as you said at the beginning of your post, you like attention and he isn't giving you the full attention you want. I don't want to be too judgmental after knowing so little, but I would just drop the guy.

[dancingdoc2]

So I'm confused because your sentence structure and thought patterns do not agree. So I think I understand what you are saying.

I believe you need to think more of yourself, set higher standards, and, demand more of your friends. You should go out and cultivate better friendships.

> he's a couple of years younger than me.

Regardless of age, girls mature earlier and faster than boys. Boys are typically a couple of years behind girls of the same age, so in this case he could quite possibly be four years less developed than you.

> ( yeah I chat a lot) every once in a blue moon.

So just curious, what definition of "blue moon" are you using? What are you saying; that you chat a lot only on the day of a blue moon, or, chat a lot every so often?

[Massdebator]

She was saying that he chats with her on AIM infrequently. The content of the parentheses was a separate thought.

[EvilEvilKitten]

This guy is useless to you and you should replace him.
The next time he AIMs you ask "Who are you again?"

He has got to learn "this is not just about HIM"

So stand up for yourself and quietly, relentlessly demand your due.

[tataa]

Thanks guys! I love your input all of you and I'm going to take it into consideration. What I meant is we rarely talk. Kitten you always have the best advice.

[tataa]

Originally Posted by Massdebator

She was saying that he chats with her on AIM infrequently. The content of the parentheses was a separate thought.

Thank you.