her old boyfriends

[lnt1103]

I played with the phone, found the block function, and it wouldn't work. I then asked at the sales desk how to block someone from calling me and was told it couldn't be done.

I also have never owned a shotgun, and threats to contact law enforcement were fruitless against him.

With normal people, your advice would have worked like a charm. Irrational addicts are not capable of normal thought.

[EvilEvilKitten]

Then change the number. I'd also have gotten myself a phone that actually worked as it should. Go to a gun shop with a recorder and record the sound of a shotgun being racked - do I have to think of everything?!?!?

The point being that no matter how irrational you think he/she might be - there is always another way.

[lnt1103]

I was tired of trying and wanted to dispense with it once and for all, so I just changed the number.

[EvilEvilKitten]

So you see, OP, there are many ways your gf can fix this problem - there's no need for you be bothered with it.

[Sekcboi85]

I agree. The best way to deal with ex-boyfriends is to not deal with them. Getting insecure or jealous only makes you look less attractive and sometimes controlling. If she is confused and still wants to be with one of them, then you don't need her anyway. And once she sees how cool you are about it, your status will only go up in her eyes and you look so much better than her alternatives.

[Sekcboi85]

Like EEK once put it for me, "You have no rivals. Those other guys - do not exist and even if they did, they're not at all important. The big strong teddy bear(that's you) regards those other guys as "Ken dolls" that she'll eventually tire of and put away on the shelf."