Nerds!

[RATED-RKOFRANKLIN]

As we know the Nerd is the guy, young girls normally don't want. They are often teased. Some girls go as far and try to use them or play games with them. I've been thinking what makes someone a nerd. I've looked at my generation, and it is not really easy to say what makes someone a nerd. Everything that I will say is related to ONLY my generation.


1. Video Games
This is very stereotype that only nerds play video games. Many adults love video games. The starting QB of the school's team plays video games. Most if not all of the jocks plays video games.

However it does become very nerdy if someone's main hobby is video games. They mostly play video games everyday, and it is the main topic of most of their conversations with their group of friends.

2. Professional Wrestling
Professional Wrestling was once a respected business by having fans of all ages. Many adults enjoyed wrestling. You may have known many different people of different social groups who enjoyed professional wrestling.

Today's era of wrestling is targeted to young kids. It becomes extremely nerdy if someone who is older enjoys this modern era of wrestling for kids.

3. Sports
Most people like at least one type of sport. It is part of our culture. If you dislike sports then you may not be a nerd, but people will see you as one for disliking sports.

4.Clothes
As we were children most of us probably worn clothes with cartoons on them. As a kid that was acceptable. However as we get older we should stop wearing such clothes. If you are still wearing clothes with kiddy cartoons on them than that is very nerdy.

5. Glasses
Glasses are not nerdy. Some women look sexier when wearing glasses. It gives them sex appeal by wearing glasses. However glasses can be nerdy if they are too big for your face.

6. Grades
Having good grades does not make you a nerd. You may have realize some of the popular kids make good grades. You may have known a jock or two with good grades, I knew a jock who had a 3.12 GPA. Jocks in college also MUST make good grades to stay on the team.

However don't let your knowledge get the best of you. Don't be a smartass in a rude manner. Don't answer every question the teacher asks! Don't beg about your grades, only tell someone about your grades if you are asked.


If you are a Nerd. Do you want to get a girlfriend? You have many options.

1. This is the easiest. Go for the girls who are not after the team's QB!

2. If you want the best looking girls then make a change. Change your look and find new hobbies. You must let go some of your nerdy hobbies and habits!

3. Wait after school to find someone. After college you have the tools to find a good paying job. Women like men with good paying jobs. Women want men with Benefits! They want a secure future for herself and her children.

[EvilEvilKitten]

This is assuming that women are not or cannot be nerds which is incorrect.

But the true hallmark of being a nerd is 'social ineptness' allied with a kind of child-like (but not childish) physical gawkiness and insecurity which keeps them tied to a computer - because it is 'easier'.

I recommend two things to those Male Nerds who do not wish to be a nerd, based upon the definition above:

1. get a job doing manual physical labor - construction for example
2. get transport that says 'bad boy' - a Harley-Davidson motorcycle for example

During high school all a guy has to do is dirve up, park, lounge about his motorcycle and wait for a girl to wander up and ask for a ride. (True story.)

Older guys, college and beyond, will find suits are very attractive to women as are things like Mercedes Benz SLKs and owning your own home. Run a mile every morning. You still need physical exercise. If nothing else - learn to swing a broadsword, shoot, and/or something hand-to-hand like boxing.

For Female Nerds:

Work on the beauty thing because even the best of men are visually inspired creatures. You do not have to "super model" however so no stressing over this.

No more shapeless "sharecropper's daughter" clothing. I know you hate them but wear the damn high heels and show some leg.

Do not be "in need of rescue" - that is - stop being pathetic. Get a decent job, house, car (see above) and dare the guys to do their worst. But dumbing yourself down. You can be friendly without being stupid.


Above all nerds of the world - have confidence! After all Bill Gates won!

[RATED-RKOFRANKLIN]

Sorry I did not mention girls. When I went to High School, I did not know any girls who were nerds. I do agree with you about their beauty. I've seen plenty of girls who look like they could be attractive if they would just wear better clothes and are better groomed(hair and makeup).

[funinthesun]

Originally Posted by EvilEvilKitten

This is assuming that women are not or cannot be nerds which is incorrect.

But the true hallmark of being a nerd is 'social ineptness' allied with a kind of child-like (but not childish) physical gawkiness and insecurity which keeps them tied to a computer - because it is 'easier'.

How one carries themselves is much more important than what they are doing, especially at that age. Most people don't understand consequences or care to consider them at that age, but they certainly recognize when someone is happy and open or not.