Alone

[EvilEvilKitten]

Look - it isn't the SEX that was the problem - it was YOU'RE NOT BEING PREPARED for sex that was the problem.

YOU must have birth control - and HE must wear condoms. PERIOD.

If you are going to indulge in adult play, you have to be adult about it.

Else what you've jsut gone through is what happens.

Next item: use this lesson to help you choose more suitable MEN, not boys, but men. You want a man who can stand to carry his responsibilites and make it not only look easy but is more than happy to do it.

[Rouge]

Originally Posted by EvilEvilKitten

Next item: use this lesson to help you choose more suitable MEN, not boys, but men. You want a man who can stand to carry his responsibilites and make it not only look easy but is more than happy to do it.

It'll be hard for her to do that while still with him..

[Sesshomarulover261]

I am on bc now. I don't mean to come on here and cry or whatever but I don't talk to anyone about certain types of situations and that is one of them.

I like the whole anonymous thing.

[nuttychick]

Originally Posted by Sesshomarulover261

I am on bc now.

You are pregnant?
You are on birth control now?

I am confused

[Rouge]

nono, she went for her "appointment" a few days ago.

[nuttychick]

Originally Posted by Rouge

nono, she went for her "appointment" a few days ago.

ahhhh now I'm up with the play lol thanx

[Sesshomarulover261]

Indeed...

Has anyone read the Scarlet Letter? This kinda feels like that :/ but I'm not being shamed in front of my whole town of Puritans :P

I'm just being shamed because I'm still with my boyfriend D:

[lnt1103]

We're not trying to shame you, hun, and I'm sorry if that's how it comes out. We're trying to help you.

Don't you see that when you needed him the most, he bolted until the unpleasantness was all over? Heck, the people you only know through a computer screen were, and continue to be, more supportive of you than he was during all this. A computer screen can't put its arms around you the way he should have. He should have been your rock.

That's the only reason we behave the way we do about him--we want better than him for you.

[EvilEvilKitten]

Int is quite correct. You judge a man's worth by his ACTIONS and his weren't good. After a bit of hesitation, he should have been by your side helping where he could. He wasn't.

Learn NOW that who you choose to date and call your boyfriend shows people what you think of yourself. "She doesn't want much." is NOT something you want other people to say about you, is it? Forget this whole 'they don't know him like I do' thing - pffft!

All we need to know about him is that when you (you, the girl he professed to care about) needed him - him RAN away.

And that is all you need to know about him as well.

[Rouge]

Shame is a great catalyst.