Help me (:

[oohh<3!]

I don't know where to start!

My hubby and I got a divorce and I'm not really doing much so I moved back in with my parents. My parents have lived in the same home since I was 15 and so have their neighbors. Our one neighbor, I am so sexually attracted to. I'm EXTREMELY sexually attracted to him actually. It makes my pussy wet just thinking about him. He is an older guy, and when I say older I mean older. He has a wife, has had children and grand-children. Ever since I was about 17 (I'm 22 now) He'd call me beautiful and pretty and gorgeous and adorable. When ever my mom made me do gardening work he'd stare at me and then tell me to not let my mom make me do things. He'd tell me I worked too hard. Whenever my parents would leave the house I would go sit out back and relax and sun bathe (I was always in a bikini or shorts and tank top). Most of the time he'd come and chit chat. He'd do flirty little things and it turned me on all the time but I was afraid to do anything. Now I'm older and back home and he still does the same little things. I thought for a long time that maybe he was just friendly and was like that with everyone. But I was wrong, he never did that with anyone.

Anyways I want to pursue a sexual relationship with him because I am so sexual attracted to him. But I don't even know if he is in to me that way.
Sorry this was long but I just really need advice as to how I should ask him, or get a hint, or clue.

Thanks<3

[RATED-RKOFRANKLIN]

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[nuttychick]

lol @ Franklin.....


Just how old is this guy ???

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[dancingdoc2]

> I got a divorce and I'm not really doing much so I moved back in with my parents.

How long have you been divorced? If only a short period of time, it is important to know and understand that "rebound relationships" rarely work out. You should just be by yourself for a few months and then date openly with men your own age.

> Our one neighbor, I am so sexually attracted to.... He is an older guy, and when I say older I mean older. He has a wife, has had children and grand-children.

Why in the world of common decency would you meddle in someone elses marriage? Come on, girl, grow up, and begin getting a (new) life. If you are not doing anything, why not, and why not start socializing with others who can help you network and find someone to date?

> I want to pursue a sexual relationship with him because I am so sexual attracted to him.

So, "damn the torpedos and full speed ahead!" to heck with the neighbor's wife who has known you for years.

Let's see, what if you are happily married or not, pregnant, and some man tries to horn in on your marriage cutting your husband off? Or, let's say another woman tries to come between you and your husband--either way.

One problem with all of this is that your brain has not yet fully developed. The part that will eventually be added inside your skull is the part of the frontal lobe dealing with behavior and being able to predict the consequences of your actions. This whole scenario belongs as a fantasy in your imagination. Call it up next time you masturbate.

Regardless of whether he has designs on you, is just flirting with you, leave the man and his family alone. Pick on someone your own age--and single.

[Browser]

So this guy is way older than you and started creeping on you when you were underage and he was married? Sounds like a great potential partner. I'm with Doc.

[lnt1103]

You're on the rebound, and no offense but Doc's right about how those relationships rarely work out in the long haul. He's married, and given that he has GRANDchildren, he's quite obviously old enough to be your father.

Don't pursue anything with this guy. Find another outlet.

[EvilEvilKitten]

Are you INSANE?

Leave the man alone! Jeez! Do you want to be the "crazy bitch next door" that is the topic of all the nieghborhood discussions? Every time the neighbors see your parents it will be a case of "those poor people, they tried to raise her right".

You're NOT a child any more - grab hold of your life and make something of it. Stop sitting on your ass at home, whining about how 'wet' he makes you - NO ONE CARES - least of all, him.

Stop being so ... LAME.

Get a job and go to school while working so you can get a better job so you can move out and GET ON WITH YOUR LIFE.

[maupassant]

Originally Posted by EvilEvilKitten

Are you INSANE?

Leave the man alone! Jeez! Do you want to be the "crazy bitch next door" that is the topic of all the nieghborhood discussions? Every time the neighbors see your parents it will be a case of "those poor people, they tried to raise her right".

It is good to see that this site is not a case of 'anything goes'. We all love sex (well, from what I remember of it!), but even so, decency prevails.
You have some good advice.
Don't be selfish Oooh; get a life.

[EvilEvilKitten]

Well, anything goes - as long as that anything is NOT destructive, and is entered into fully informed and consensually with responsible partner(s).

This particular 'anything' is just one sad chick looking to ruin everything in an attempt to rebuild something fatuous and it simply would be doomed to failure.