19 & 31

[blackknight]

Originally Posted by rosebanks

but i also asked a question, What is YOUR opinion on that situation?

I see nothing untoward about the situation. If the dating evolves into something more in the longer term, this might bring up issues that you as an adult need to sort out.

You might find that you'll get judged by older women however.

[EvilEvilKitten]

Pitied but not judged.

[sweet224]

Don't worry if you like is true. you do it else ........it's your life. you don't fears love is blind.
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FriendyAnil

[dancingdoc2]

I'm certain I do not understand that.

[nuttychick]

Originally Posted by dancingdoc2

I'm certain I do not understand that.

I concur


I wonder if we would be able to get an English Translation?

[hazel]

I've dated guys 10 yrs older than me when I was that age. I can be a lot of fun. However, there is a lot of maturing and changing that goes on between 20 and 30. Either he has matured and the two of you won't be able to connect much. Or he has not matured, and you may be stuck with a guy who's stuck as a mental teen for years to come. I'd say do it as a wonderful, fun, youthful fling. But don't go picking out the Wedding decorations yet, if you know what I mean. Time will tell where yours ends up. Why not try it? Take one day at a time and have fun!

And my track record: first bfriend was 10 yrs my senior and we seriously thought about marriage and kids (until I went off to college and things changed). Few years later I dated a coworker who was also 10 yrs my senior, and it was fun but didn't go as well. He wasn't evil but being a bit immature for his age, he was also a bit manipulative; me being a teen/early-20s I was naive and didn't realize I was being manipulated -- not so healthy for me.

[bayonet777]

Originally Posted by lnt1103

And, oh, by the way, am I honestly the only one here who sees a red flag in the fact that a 31 year old man wants to date a 19 year old girl?????

Nope, US Army MP here big flagid be careful

[EvilEvilKitten]

Of course it is a red flag, Int.

[CleverName]

To sum everything up; he just wants sex from you, probally will end badly, don't do it.

[EvilEvilKitten]

Actually Clever, it isn't just sex - it is children!
He's only 31 so he can pretty much find sex anywhere, or buy some.