Very frustrated....

[dancingdoc2]

> I think I read some where that a lot of girls, and I think it is majority of girls can't have a orgasm from just penetration.

True, although, more to the point, of all the sexual positions only a very few place a woman's pieces-parts in close constant contact with a man's pubic mound sufficient to generate the required friction. It isn't that women cannot reach orgasm from intercourse, just that many times they do not have the opportunity.

> A lot of girls need some type of clitoris stimulation. Maybe next time a guy is in u you can reach down and rub your clit and then you can get off with him in you.

That can work, yet because romance and sex is a partnership, wouldn't it be much better for the man to reach around and provide the needed stimulation?

> I know for the girls they wish they could get off like a guy does during sex, but the two bodies are different. You could also have him go down and give you one and then start having sex because then you are warmed up and it might not be as hard to get the second as the first.

Good recommendation.

[Shnitzel]

Very Very good ideas thank you! Hopefully i can try this out very soon try to relax and since i was dependent on vibe hopefully my clit can get back to normal *which someone told me it should take about 6 months to get the feeling back* I am very interested to see how everyones help will have lead me to an orgasm so if i do i will post here and keep yall updated ^_^.

[dancingdoc2]

Glad to help.

As you practice, remember to maintain the fun even though you may be workin' at it for a little while. When sex (even when when making love to yourself) it should be enjoyable.

[Shnitzel]

Arigatoo ^_^

[EvilEvilKitten]

If her partner caresses her G-Spot, her anterior fornix, and/or her posterior fornix - she can indeed enjoy an orgasm from penetration. I do ALL of the time and so do most of the women in the Swing Lifestyle - one reason why we are the happiest women you will ever meet!

Multiple orgasms are the norm for women, if they permit it, although a man can also achieve multiple orgasms from one erection/ejaculation - it takes training and practice.

I have written a great deal on this topic all around this site. Go find them.

[Shnitzel]

! Yes i will try and find them right now!

[Shnitzel]

OK so a lil update, Last night i did masturbate and i didn't use a vibrator!!!! well i did use a dildo so i don't know if i broke the rule using one BUT! im really happy i actually used my fingers to cum! i have never done that before and i feel very good about myself! Now to see if i can put a man in the equation and see if i can still cum to just using my fingers.

[EvilEvilKitten]

Relaxation and just enjoying is the key!