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Old 06-28-2009, 12:00 AM
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i've been dating the same girl for almost 3 years and i wanna try somthing new, like a threesome or somthing but she's absolutely against it is there any advice somone can give me?
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Old 06-28-2009, 01:25 AM
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What is your relationship all about?

Guys typically will say and do anything to have sex.
Gals want to be valued, acknowledged, loved, and will occasionally have sex as a result.

Threesomes rarely end well, regardless of why they were done. If you are in your relationship for the long haul, then keep this as a fantasy. If your relationship is basically open or FWB, then you may want to state your desire for threesomes up front so she can decide whether or not this is a direction she wants to go.

It is important to understand that her reason for having sex is different from yours.
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Old 06-28-2009, 06:41 AM
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A threesome has to be a mutual decision. If you pressure her into it the odds of a break up got through the roof. Also are you looking for a MMF or a MFF threesome? I find that if you are open to another women joining you but against another man it's basically saying it's all about your satisfaction.
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Old 06-28-2009, 08:46 AM
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Do a search on threesomes. There are several threads. Roughly, those looking forward to them think they are great. Those who have tried have somewhat mixed reactions.
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Old 06-28-2009, 10:33 AM
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If she is against it don't mention it any more. If she isn't into it you won't enjoy it either. Find some other new thing to try. If you move on at some point and find another GF try again.
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Excuse me: do you enjoy being pressured into doing soemthing you do not want to do? No? Then why would you do it to her? Why do you expect her to agree to doing anything you want? Why are you busy searching for a way, any way, to get around her? Do you think your desires are more legit than hers?

Either RESPECT her and her decision - or Get Lost.
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no she just wants to try somthing new so i offered that up just asking for people's opinions, relax
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no she just wants to try somthing new so i offered that up just asking for people's opinions, relax
The most important opinion is hers.
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Old 06-30-2009, 08:19 AM
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And she gave you her opinion/decision. So why bother us?

Relax.
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