new guy...

[SmilingInside]

i was hanging out with this guy who i like and he likes me. we were drinking and (oops) had sex i felt rly dum the next day and felt like i made a huge mistake! i spoke to him abt it and we were cool (he didnt think i made an ass of myself). then we hung out like 4 days later and we hooked up again. we didnt go as far this time but i felt stupid telling him i dint wanna take my clothes off since thats a step down. i want to start from scratch! i really like him and i dont want him to think of me as a booty call or fuck buddy or anything!
do u think i killed my chances already?
what should i do? im having trouble figuring out if he stopped liking me as a potential gf now!

[RATED-RKOFRANKLIN]

The first thing to do is to fix your English. I'm young myself but I never use "ghetto crap English". Some people will not be able to understand you with such a lack of trying to type proper English.

You and this guy have feelings for one another. You had sex with him twice. Taking your clothes off was not a step down. You still had sex with him. It is hard to start from scratch twice.

Well I don't think you are hurting your chances of a relationship with him. You had sex with the guy so that does not damage his feelings towards you. The problem is you told him you made a mistake, and four days later had sex with him again. You are sending him mix signals of confusion. You need to site down and talk to him about the problem.

You need to control your lust. I suggest you and him go out on dates. Be seen in public. This way you two are not behind closed doors, and will be less tempted to have sex.

Also wear a condom in future sexual encounters. You did not mention if you used one or not. Remember safety first.

[nuttychick]

Originally Posted by RATED-RKOFRANKLIN

The first thing to do is to fix you English. .

Blind leading the blind ?????

[funinthesun]

Originally Posted by nuttychick

Blind leading the blind ?????

Clicking on this post made me spill my coffee! Darn you nuttychick.

[RATED-RKOFRANKLIN]

Originally Posted by nuttychick

Blind leading the blind ?????

My English is just fine.

Just to let you know a sentence should not have more than one question mark. Work on your English please.

[nuttychick]

Originally Posted by funinthesun

Clicking on this post made me spill my coffee! Darn you nuttychick.

Aww mi bad... least it wasnt so funny you wet your pants,,

[nuttychick]

Lol Franklin it is too late to hide the evidence once it has been quoted...
Sorry but "YOU ENGLISH" is not good.

oh and PS she isn't talking "ghetto crap English" it is more txt lingo

[Gibson52]

I think this guy left you when the booty stopped. He was using you and will probably call on you in the future when he is drunk and can't find any girl friends. He'll tell you what you whatever you want to hear, as long as he gets his way. Better watch out and not be so easy next time. I'm certain you still have ptential as a sex partner with him if that means the same as GF to you.

[SadisticEuphoria]

Just to clarify, did you have sex with him twice or just once?
It depends on the guy himself really. I don't necessarily think you have screwed up your chances. Just be honest with him & your feelings, if your confused about them then tell him. But don't hook up or have sex with him. If you want to start from scratch then start from scratch & tell him thats what you want to do.
Explain your feelings to him. If he generally likes you, then go on a first date. Kiss, if you want. Don't have sex. Do what you would allow yourself to do on a first date with anyone else. Then if he likes you, and truly likes you, he wont expect you to have sex again. If he makes you feel like you should be having sex, then you know he just sees you as a 'fuck buddy'. So then it's up to you.

[bayonet777]

i believe we all made it very clear that franklin is in no position to give advice seeing as he has never had a girlfriend