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[average joe]

Well im a 20 year old male( not in college atm) living in the usa. I haven't had a gf for 2 years and only had one in my life. I did lose my virginity tho at the age of 17. I do dress well and always have a smile on my face. I haven't had a one night stand or anything, and im believe that going to college would solve this problem. Though it would be a stupid reason just to go to college is to get laid. Seeing my friends hang out with whole bunch of girls kind of depresses me.I have been trying to talk to girls at the mall, getting out of my comfort zone. It feels like im a total outcast because I dont go to college and I no social circle. I also wonder if im ever gonna meet the one, which scares me.....but im only 20 years old and have time. Why am I worrying so much about this?

I might be all over the place with the thread...im just confused and wanted to get this out of my head

[Ell]

I think that it might be bothering you that your friends have moved onto a new chapter in their lives & you have not. I think college would be good for you as long as you are willing to stick it out & graduate. Even if it doesnt help your love life, It would improve your chances at getting a good job

[EvilEvilKitten]

You are lost and just floundering around. This will have a negative impact upon not only your love life but on every aspect of your life.

You need a goal that you can totally commit to.

[AussieBloke]

First of all, if you cant get laid out of college, going to college wont change it.

You are who you are, if you cant get the job done.. something needs to change! Changing your surroundings may help a touch, but you still will fundamentally have the same problems.

Firstly, if your not a great looking guy, dont try to have one night stands with glamours. Not going to happen.

Secondly, its all about image. If you want women, you have to be a strong personality; be confident, have an opinion.. and be indifferent to the women your sleeping with. Have an attitude that they can take it or leave it attitude -- invariably theyll take it when you dont care if they take it or leave it.

Also, you got to be a bit ballsy and exciting. Say things to women that guys wont say.. that most guys wont have the balls to say because they dont think they can get away with it. Be cheeky.. theres a big difference between being cheeky and being disgusting/disturbing/weird. Good idea to learn the difference.

Lack of social circle is probably reflective of yourself. Got to be outgoing to have alot of friends; got to be at all the parties, play sort, whatever.

I said college wont change too much, and it wont, but it will give you a new environment to start fresh. If you dont change, things in your life wont change.