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[RATED-RKOFRANKLIN]

Originally Posted by MIGHTY BOOSH

I didn't suggest you did call yourself anything or act like a wrestler I just didn't want you to read my advice and think that you should.
But if I could take your freinds calling you the Rated R Superstar the wrong way then anyone can, just makesure you don't send the wrong impression.

As for bragging about doing well in school I'm sure I read something you wrote where you seemed pretty pleased with yourself.

You don't have to change but you don't seem too happy with yourself, if you are then fine don't change but if want a girl something will have to change, even if it's as simple as asking more girls out, getting out more, having realistic standards

You don't have to become a completly different person, i had things i didn't like about myself. The main thing I changed was my confidence, I now dress better, fit in better, stand out, have more fun and much more. I'm very much the same person I just have less negatives and more confidence making my positives stand out more. I may still have negatives, but I don't think so, I'm happy with who I am now.

Change is good

I like who I am. I love the types of clothes that I wear. I enjoy all of my hobbies. I love what I do in my life. I've always been able to fit in with many different types of people. That is easy for me because of all my hobbies together are completely not stereotype for a person.

As I said deep down inside I want to say to myself that I'm a decent, average, or nice looking guy as people have to me that I am. Yet women do not find me attractive. I'm not weird. I'm well groomed. I'm not a shy person.

As for me stating how well do school. A member said that I'm immature just because of my standards. I find to to be a unfair way of judging someone based off of one single thing.

Originally Posted by MIGHTY BOOSH

Do you know these girls or do you try this with random girls? Are you sure they're thinking "why is the ugly guy talking to me" and not "Why is this guy talking to me? Who is he? Are you sure they look disgusted?

If you're asking out random girls try getting close to girls in your class at college or something and then "make a move" don't be some random guy, it takes some skill to ask out a stranger.

Sounds like you need to relax, don't look to eager. Walk up to them smooth and confident, say hi, get talking and see how that goes

Well I only ask out girls that I get to know. I never ask out a stranger. I want to get to know the girl before asking her on a date.

Yes they do have a disgusted look on their faces. When I talk to a random girl I normally ask "how are you". Sometimes I just say "hi".

[LickMyGamete]

I called you immature, but it wasn't because of your "standards." It's because of your way of thinking. You're obsessed with sex and you're putting the cart wayyy before the horse.

You put 100% of your energy focussed on how she looks and what she does in bed and 0% on her personality or things that matter. What you're looking for is a prostitute. Grow some balls, go to a brothel or whatever, have 10 girls stand infront of you topless, pay your $ and go have your fun with who ever is lucky enough to be your pick.

You're wasting our time pretending you're looking for a relationship with a christian girl. LOL. More like a prostitute who you don't have to pay for.

Mighty Boosh - why do you value idiots and have something against people who do well in school? If Franklin does do well in school, women are going to flock all over him once he gets into the real world and gets a job making good money. I'd much rather be in his shoes in 10 years than some idiot who fails out of college, looking "cool" doing it along the way down.

[RATED-RKOFRANKLIN]

What you said is completely not true. I have said many times in this thread and the other one, that I do look at personality. I do care about who she is as a person. I look at her body and at her personality. Go back and actually read my post. I do not want this thread to turn into the last one with full of false assumptions and NOT reading what I actually say in response.

Why am I obsessed with sex? As I said I look at the body and the personality. I've also said numerous times that sex is not the only thing about a relationship. A relationship is a commitment to share your life with someone you truly love. It is about spending time together and not just in the bedroom. Go out together, shop with one another, eating together, showing love to one another in a nonsexual manner(hugging and candling), spend your life together, etc. Stop saying things just to say them.

If you want to continue to lie and disrespect me please leave this thread.

[LickMyGamete]

Franklin, on your first post you state about 4 physical requirements, then about 2 superficial personality requirement. Then you get ahead of yourself and talk about sex for a few sentences.

1. She must be thin
2. She must have big boobs
3. She must dress nice.
4. She must be clean.

and

1. She must be Christian
2. We must have good communication.


then 4 sentences on how you want to "titty fuck" a women.

And then later in the topic you state "it's not just physical, personality is important for me too." LOL show it! You've talked about "personality" 0% of the time.

WHAT personality? Do you want a girl who takes her studies seriously? Do you want a wrestling fan, someone into dragon ball z just like you? Do you know what personality is? Because "being a Christian and communicating well with me" is not very deep...

You're obsessed with sex, great proof comes from when you answer Zr2 on page 1.

He makes a comment that if all you want to do is "titty fuck" you need to grow up. Rather than taking it to mean the intended "hmm, maybe there's MORE to a relationship than sex" you take it to mean the literal acts DURING sex. LOL. You reply something like "No, I also want to fuck her in other ways." Dude, He's not talking about sex! Only you are!

You're young. Every guy your (our..we'll I'm 23) age has the same hormones going through our body. It's natural to think like that..just try to stay with reality a bit.

And I'm not trying to disrespect you,..

[RATED-RKOFRANKLIN]

Of course you are disrespecting me. You are lying about me and making false assumptions. Instead of asking me what do I look for in a personality, you made a bond statement that I don't. I have mention personality many times in this thread. I did not give details in what I look for in a personality, but I have mention I also look at that as well.

In these post I have spoken about personality. Read my post before making false assumptions.
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Stop lying and just leave.

[LickMyGamete]

What am I lying about? You just backed up what i said.

The facts are you spent whole posts going over sex and what she must look like, and then you throw out the statement "she must have a great personality too," okay? Care to expand on anything other than her boobs and what she does to you in bed?

To make it clearer - it's like you have 1,000 words dedicated to her looks, and only 10 about her personality...maybe balance it out a bit?

You talked about nothing of personality in those posts. You just blankly say some variation of "I take her personality into account too."

Franklin, stop taking this as an attack. Just because you don't agree with what someone says doesn't mean you throw a tantrum.

Again - WHAT have I lied about? That's me calling you out. Show me the proof in those 9 pages of where you talked about what you look for in her personality, and I'll take back what I said. Because I searched and searched before I posted, and saw post after post of physical requirements, followed by the hollow statements you just posted.

No offense (yeah right), but I'm really starting to see why women don't like you..

[Zr2_EQX]

Franklin, stop being so dense and stupid. Everything LickMyGamete said is true. Give it a rest. Your amusement was fun at first but now you are just being stupid.

[nuttychick]

OH FFS here we go again....

Franklin jumping up and down pointing his finger at someone saying "liar"

Me has come to the conclusion that little franklin is bored thats why he is continuing with these threads that go round and round...

Maybe he should stick to Rosie Palmer and her 5 daughters.. Save the poor woman of his area...

[nuttychick]

Originally Posted by LickMyGamete

No offense (yeah right), but I'm really starting to see why women don't like you..

Lol even woman who havent met him , that live the other side of the world think he is ......................................

[RATED-RKOFRANKLIN]

Originally Posted by LickMyGamete

What am I lying about? You just backed up what i said.

The facts are you spent whole posts going over sex and what she must look like, and then you throw out the statement "she must have a great personality too," okay? Care to expand on anything other than her boobs and what she does to you in bed?

To make it clearer - it's like you have 1,000 words dedicated to her looks, and only 10 about her personality...maybe balance it out a bit?

You talked about nothing of personality in those posts. You just blankly say some variation of "I take her personality into account too."

Franklin, stop taking this as an attack. Just because you don't agree with what someone says doesn't mean you throw a tantrum.

Again - WHAT have I lied about? That's me calling you out. Show me the proof in those 9 pages of where you talked about what you look for in her personality, and I'll take back what I said. Because I searched and searched before I posted, and saw post after post of physical requirements, followed by the hollow statements you just posted.

No offense (yeah right), but I'm really starting to see why women don't like you..

What I put in bold is more than enough to show that I do look at the personalty. As I said in the post before this one I did not go into details about what I look for in personality. I did say I speak to females about their life and interest by doing that is getting to know them. It is far too late to take back what you said. You have lied about me just like members did in my last thread and use that to spam the hell out of it.

Originally Posted by RATED-RKOFRANKLIN

I understand body language well. As I said earlier when I try to start a conversation with a simple "hello" or "how are you", females give me a negative look. They look disgusted in the face. It is like they are saying to themselves "why is the ugly guy talking to me". I do watch how females respond to different guys. I pay close attention to people's body language.

I'm not refusing to learn anything. I have done many things that have been advised to me. I have asked women on dates who did not have big breast. I tried in that area and it did not work. Women simply don't want me. The women who I am attracted to and the ones who I find unattractive, both groups do not want me.

I do not go to females and talk about MegaMan, video games, nor DBZ. I talk to them about things they enjoy, things we have in common, and how has their day been. What is going on in their lives and so much more.

I do look at the inside of a woman. If I don't like who she is as a person than I won't ask her on a date. I won't date anyone who I'm not attracted to.

Originally Posted by RATED-RKOFRANKLIN

I'm not looking for a "fling or a "one night stand". I want a real relationship. I don't expect to marry someone in just a few months. That is a big decision to make in life! I may date someone for two maybe three years before I want to marry them and other things have to fall into place as well.

I have my physical standards and I do have my personality standards. All of my standards are important and the woman must have all of them. I may like the body but I do not always like the personality(which I'm sure I said this already). If I do not like the personality than I'm not interested in her.

I see the advice people have given me. The advice is good for just about anyone. However I have done everything that has been advised to me. I don't talk about most of my hobbies to another woman unless she likes the same thing. I usually talk about what she likes and want to know more about it. When I ask women on dates I tell them that I am interested in them and ask them on a date. They always say no. I have perfectly fine friendships with men and women. I don't have many enemies. I try to be friends with alot of people. I love getting to know people because everyone is different! I'm funny, mature, nice to people, I give back, etc. I try to do the right things. Nothing works. That is why I'm asking for help. Every time someone gives me advice I have tried it or what they said is not true about me.

Originally Posted by RATED-RKOFRANKLIN

You completely did not understood what I meant about being called the RATED-R-SUPERSTAR. I do not call myself that. My friends calls me that sometimes. I never go around acting like wrestlers. So please don't assume that I do! I am my own person.

I also do not brag about doing well in school! Please stop assuming things that are not true.



Sorry but my standards will stay the same. I do look at the heart of a person. I said this already. I look at physical body and the personality of the person.

I am not looking for a trophy wife. I am looking for someone to spend my life with. Someone who I can love and who can love me.