No Solution

[nuttychick]

Marianne Faithfull... "Brain Drain"

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Originally Posted by RATED-RKOFRANKLIN

IWell to take this a bit deeper beauty is not only standardized in a city, but in a country as well. The US media already has created the standard for beauty in this country.

Yes, but that is only part of the issue. This part you cannot escape by moving (unless you move to another culture altogether and even then these standards are becoming globalized). What you can escape by moving is that (or so it seems according to what you say) you have been already stereotyped by your social circle as too ugly to date, which might make even women who would not find you too ugly to date to be embarrassed to date you. This is what you can escape by moving.

This solution does seem a bit odd. I've never heard of anyone moving to another city to find a relationship because he or she is not acceptable in the dating world where they certainly are.

Why not? People move for all sorts of reasons, one of the reasons being to start afresh. Starting afresh may refer to jobs, social ties or relationships (or other things). I mean, if nothing else seems to be working for you, this might be something to consider.

[RATED-RKOFRANKLIN]

If my GPA continue to go up then I should be able to move and go to another college for grad school.

[CleverName]

Do you own this site? You don't have any rights to tell anyone to come back or not.

I don't understand why everyone is upset with me. I cannot control that nothing is working. Yes, I am referring the advise people gave me. I've been doing this for years before coming to this site. I cannot control that women find me as the worst looking man there is. What power can anyone have to control attraction? No one has such power.

I advise you to take a psychology class. Without physical attraction there cannot be a relationship. Every psychology class will inform you about this.

I am in my 2nd year as a psychology major Franklin. Also, I hope you take my "Advise" and take an English class.

Everyone is upset because every statement, question, or thought you have, has already been adressed yet you continue to bring the same things up, over and over again. You don't want "advise", you want attention. Clearly no one here is helping you anyways, so why keep coming back?

From now on, I am just going to refer you back to pages in this thread.

[RATED-RKOFRANKLIN]

My English is just fine. Misspelling one word does not mean someone has bad English. You are just ignorant.

I am sorry for bringing up the same things again. You are perfectly correct about no one is really helping. My side of the problem has completely been ignored. Why continue to give me advice that I do? Like I said I am better off getting help from another site. That has not turn out too good as some people think I am racist against blacks because I refuse to date ghetto people. lol

I won't bump this topic anymore. I have over stayed my welcome. Wait.......I never had a welcome.

Do what you want with this thread. I don't care.

[CleverName]

Please see post number 69 for reply.

[Brandye]

Well, Franklin, I am sorry you are hurt but you really have earned the disrespect shown you as this thread has progressed.

And, you really do need a basic English course. Spelling is not too bad but your verb-noun agreement is terrible and the syntax is quite poor. Good luck.

[nuttychick]

Originally Posted by RATED-RKOFRANKLIN

I won't bump this topic anymore. I have over stayed my welcome.
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Ahhh Cheers Frankieboy good luck and goodbye...

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Through the fish-eyed lens of tear stained eyes
I can barely define the shape of this moment in time

The final cut... Pink Floyd

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Originally Posted by RATED-RKOFRANKLIN

... I should be able to move ...

Good for you!

Originally Posted by RATED-RKOFRANKLIN

My English is just fine. Misspelling one word does not mean someone has bad English.

Your English is fine, that much is true. There are people who come to this site for advice whose English is incomparably worse yet don't get it picked apart.

You are perfectly correct about no one is really helping. My side of the problem has completely been ignored.

Well, no, it has not been ignored, but assuming there are no deeper issues at hand that you are not revealing, the way you present your side of the issue is that your problem is inherent in your looks that you cannot do anything about. If that is true than no amount of extra advice can really help you, because there are only three options you have for dealing with that:

1) Change your looks. This requires plastic surgery, such as having your 'ears clipped'.
2) Shift your social circle to one that doesn't dislike your looks so much that it becomes unnacceptable for women in it to date you. This requires moving, preferably to a different place entirely, though possibly just moving socially to a different circle of acquaintances could suffice.
3) Alter your standards. This requires lowering your standards to accept women with physical features and/or personalities you consider less than ideal, but who might be more willing to accept the way you look.

None of the above is an easy option to take, but that's all you can really do to improve your prospects with women... assuming it is indeed solely your looks that are the problem. Most people are suggesting that there might be other things than your looks in play with this issue. If true, it could actually be easier to change than any of the three options above, but only you can really know if there is something deeper to it or not, as the rest of us only know you over the internet.

[funinthesun]

The quality of writing displayed in this thread's entirety and the myopic defense of it explains volumes about the poster.

It is often obvious when a poster does not speak English as their first language, and other times it is mostly irrelevant to the simple questions asked. When one writes extensive diatribes with hundreds of basic errors and defiantly proclaims themselves to be an intelligent individual above a certain class, then the use of proper command of the English language is very relevant to the thread and flaws should be pointed out.

There are plenty of errors in this post!