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[LickMyGamete]

Originally Posted by RATED-RKOFRANKLIN

I don't have any game. I pay attention how women act around me. I don't get any signals of attraction. Then again maybe I don't understand these signals.

Franklin, that was very honest of you to admit that. Admitting that you lack the ability to decipher signals someone throws off is a step in the right direction.

When I say "play the game" I don't mean it in the ghetto sense of slick your hair back and become the idiot superficial Mr. Suave. I mean pay attention to how YOU come across to people, and really put some thought into it and be honest with yourself. Something that you're sending out to women isn't coming out right.

Another thing you need to realize is, sometimes it takes work and running the risk of embarrassing yourself before something possibly successful comes out at the end.

My wife didn't send out a "signal of attraction" to me when we first met. I thought she was hot as hell and wanted her then, so I spent a few months getting to know her and luckily our personalities and humor clicked. I would of probably ended in the "creepo" category if I had led off with what I wanted to do to her, or some strong come on...and I'd be sitting here single lamenting my luck right along with you.

[RATED-RKOFRANKLIN]

When I talk to girls I get to know them. I never try to come on strong. I don't ask out girls I just met. I never tell them that I love them because I don't.

If I have known a girl for a while and developed a good friendship, I will tell her how I feel, and ask her on a date.

I pay attention on how people react around me. I am funny, and people laugh at the things that I say. At work two weeks ago my friends were talking about girls are my humor. I have a dry type humor. My friends told me that most young girls would not appreciate dry humor.

[Newtolove]

Originally Posted by RATED-RKOFRANKLIN

Here are my standards for women when it comes to dating and relationships. She must pass all of my standards. First She must be slender. I am not attracted to fat women. Second she must have at least a c cup. Small breast turn me off. Third she must be a Christian. I want someone with the same religious beliefs. Fourth she must dress nice. Fifth she must be clean. Sixth we must have good communication with one another.

If I ever lost my virginity(which I know I won't) I want to titty fuck a woman. Thinking about or watching titty fucking is a huge turn on for me. My friends thinks this is weird. They also think that this does not do anything to the woman what so ever..

maybe thats your problem, why does she HAVE to be a christian, you know there are lots of nice people thas are not religeous, some of us can be nice and honest without a manual you know. so your saying you think your ugly (I have no idea having not seen your pic) and have some very specific physical and spiritual constaints for your woman to be: good luck

[King Rick]

Why bring this back up? Seriously? You've pointed something out that 27 other people pointed out in the previous 63 pages...

[LickMyGamete]

Woohoo, I'm the 635th person to beat a dead horse!

Or it's the 635th turn to beat a dead horse, and I'm the one who gets to do it ? Eh, first one sounds better.

[RATED-RKOFRANKLIN]

Originally Posted by Newtolove

maybe thats your problem, why does she HAVE to be a christian, you know there are lots of nice people thas are not religeous, some of us can be nice and honest without a manual you know. so your saying you think your ugly (I have no idea having not seen your pic) and have some very specific physical and spiritual constaints for your woman to be: good luck

I know some non-religious people who are good people. I just want someone with the same beliefs as I do. Well over 70% of Americans consider themselves to be Christians so I don't think this is a big deal as a standard.

Yep Women find me to be extremely physically unattractive. The worst to pick out of the bunch. I hear it all of the time.

[nuttychick]

Damn horse has been so beat .. we are gonna have to get a new dead horse me thinks

[King Rick]

*Gets defibrillator*

Let's bring this one back to love so we can beat it again, and again, and again.

[bayonet777]

ok listen here. you dont like your looks fine. you dont like your personality. find. but when you lose faith in yourself and your self confidence? then we have a problem. you want to boost your confidence? join the army or get some help. nothing makes you believe in your self like a team needing you in front and a DI chewing you out in the rear. you think you have a problem? try spending all day getting shot at and bleeding so that you CAN get your stupid ear surgery! grow a pair and believe in yourself!

[RATED-RKOFRANKLIN]

Well I got some good news and some bad news. The good news is that a girl likes me and another girl actually thinks I'm cute. However the bad news is neither one of the girls are my type.