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[RATED-RKOFRANKLIN]

Originally Posted by nuttychick

oH FFS Franklin just grow your hair over your ears . and stop trying to lay blame on anything and everything for your lack of "picking up woman skills"..

I will not grow my hair over my ears. I am going to get surgery. I do not want to be deformed. It is my choice, not yours.

I have a lot of problems to overcome before I try to find a girlfriend. Everything that I blame for not being able to get someone has to do with me.

[nuttychick]

Originally Posted by RATED-RKOFRANKLIN

I will not grow my hair over my ears. I am going to get surgery. I do not want to be deformed. It is my choice, not yours.

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Oh i can see you now stamping your feet having a little tantrum whilst posting that.

Originally Posted by RATED-RKOFRANKLIN

I have a lot of problems to overcome before I try to find a girlfriend. Everything that I blame for not being able to get someone has to do with me.

Yup true... now stop wasting bandwidth on here and go and work on your inner ugliness.. There is nothing more anyone can say to you .. or advice to give you .. It has all been said a million times

I have even lost the strength to "take the pee out of you"

[King Rick]

Originally Posted by nuttychick

Oh i can see you now stamping your feet having a little tantrum whilst posting that.



Yup true... now stop wasting bandwidth on here and go and work on your inner ugliness.. There is nothing more anyone can say to you .. or advice to give you .. It has all been said a million times

I have even lost the strength to "take the pee out of you"

Oh dear, he's been hopeless for so long. But he sure is a cutie when he has a tantrum

Seriously Frankie, surgery should be the last measure... You honestly expect us to believe that you've tried everything else? I can think of so many things to do with $4000... Like.... Buy the equipment for my home studio.... Buy 2 Gibson Les Pauls, a bunch of Marshall stacks... Lots of candy.... Maybe someone named Candy.... The possibilities are endless, surgery is pointless.

[RATED-RKOFRANKLIN]

Originally Posted by nuttychick

Oh i can see you now stamping your feet having a little tantrum whilst posting that.



Yup true... now stop wasting bandwidth on here and go and work on your inner ugliness.. There is nothing more anyone can say to you .. or advice to give you .. It has all been said a million times

I have even lost the strength to "take the pee out of you"

Originally Posted by King Rick

Oh dear, he's been hopeless for so long. But he sure is a cutie when he has a tantrum

Seriously Frankie, surgery should be the last measure... You honestly expect us to believe that you've tried everything else? I can think of so many things to do with $4000... Like.... Buy the equipment for my home studio.... Buy 2 Gibson Les Pauls, a bunch of Marshall stacks... Lots of candy.... Maybe someone named Candy.... The possibilities are endless, surgery is pointless.

I don't see how I am making a tantrum. It is my body. It is my choice.

I don't have an inner ugliness. I am a good person. I have a lot friends. I love to have fun. I am open and friendly. People tell me that I make their day. I don't have any drama in my life.

I have done the things people have told me to do. Still to this day I do these things. I have not stopped doing them. I am wearing better clothes for my age. I am not looking for the perfect woman, I am just looking for an attractive woman who I am attracted to. Most girls I have asked out do not have the "perfect look". I no longer judge a woman by her cup size. I always get to know the girls before asking them out on dates.

Getting surgery is not pointless. You do not know what it is like being deformed. There are many social disadvantages in life by being born deformed. I have wittiness many of these disadvantages and dating is one of them.

[Massdebator]

Originally Posted by RATED-RKOFRANKLIN

You do not know what it is like being deformed.

Who the hell are you to tell us about our life experiences? Do you know what we look like, or the trials and tribulations that we've overcome as individuals? I didn't think so.

I have a deformity on one of my ears, Frankie boy, and it's never stopped me from getting the girl. As a matter of fact, I've never had anyone turn me down because of any part of my physical appearance. When I was a child, my friends and I pretended that my deformity was an activation switch and that I was a robot. I have confidence in myself and a positive, caring attitude which has gotten me where I am today. If I had been as hung up about something as superficial as my physical imperfections, then my ear might have held me back. My point here is that, people's reactions to you are a reflection of how you present yourself. My ear was never a problem, because I never considered it one. Get off your high horse and stop feeling sorry for yourself. You don't deserve pity just because you have flaws, 'cuz guess what? Everyone else bloody well does too.

Now tell me, since I posted here once again despite saying I wouldn't, why you need that unnecessary $4,000 surgery or why your mom, who was absolutely correct in saying you should be liked for who you are, deserves your anger...

[King Rick]

Originally Posted by RATED-RKOFRANKLIN

You do not know what it is like being deformed.

I'm glad you know sooo much about me. It may not be a deformity, but I'm on the bigger side, yet have never had a problem getting a date. Hell, even the ones that rejected me never used my weight as a reason. You need to have some damn confidence in yourself. You say you've changed, but you really haven't... You've just pushed the blame away from girls and onto your mom. Learn to talk to people who accept you for who you are... You'll have more success that way, and it'll save you next years tuition.

[nuttychick]

Originally Posted by RATED-RKOFRANKLIN

. You do not know what it is like being deformed..

pfft and you don't know what it is like to suffer from anorexia
for 20 years because of an asshole man told you that you were getting fat 2 months after giving birth... to an already underweight woman sufferring from physical, sexual and mental abuse from said asshole was
life threating on many occassions.

Then there was Cervical Cancer

So whipdebloodydo Franklin you have funny ears..

pfft i could go on but this attention seeking tosser has pushed all the wrong buttons here

[EvilEvilKitten]

I was put into the hospital bleeding like a stuck pig and almost died at age 16 buddy-boy - so quit crying! Nor was I ever popular in high school and not much more so in college. But you don't see me fixing this and tucking that. Pfft, if they don't like the way I look - then, dammit, they can stop looking!

[RATED-RKOFRANKLIN]

Originally Posted by Massdebator

Who the hell are you to tell us about our life experiences? Do you know what we look like, or the trials and tribulations that we've overcome as individuals? I didn't think so.

I have a deformity on one of my ears, Frankie boy, and it's never stopped me from getting the girl. As a matter of fact, I've never had anyone turn me down because of any part of my physical appearance. When I was a child, my friends and I pretended that my deformity was an activation switch and that I was a robot. I have confidence in myself and a positive, caring attitude which has gotten me where I am today. If I had been as hung up about something as superficial as my physical imperfections, then my ear might have held me back. My point here is that, people's reactions to you are a reflection of how you present yourself. My ear was never a problem, because I never considered it one. Get off your high horse and stop feeling sorry for yourself. You don't deserve pity just because you have flaws, 'cuz guess what? Everyone else bloody well does too.

Now tell me, since I posted here once again despite saying I wouldn't, why you need that unnecessary $4,000 surgery or why your mom, who was absolutely correct in saying you should be liked for who you are, deserves your anger...

You are very true. I don't know everyone's experiences in life. However, I doubt most of the people who have responded to me are physically deformed.

I'm not asking for pity. I hate pity. It's good that you do not experience the same things I experience. I have many social disadvantages. Some people avoided me because they thought I had a disease. Some of my teachers treated me different than the other students. I could go on, but I won't. I'm sure you get the point.

It's great that you are not rejected because of your physical appearance. I wish I could say the same, but I shall not lie. My experiences are much different than yours. Like you I let my personality shine, but unlike you that is not enough for me being able to get a date. As I have said women tell me there is nothing wrong with the inside, it's the outside that is the problem and is unacceptable.

The surgery is necessary for I won't be deformed anymore. I tried to overcome being deformed like yourself. I have many friends which is nice, but women don't want me because I am too unattractive to date. I am treated different by people. Some people have told me they thought I was mentally challenged because of my physical appearance.

Originally Posted by King Rick

I'm glad you know sooo much about me. It may not be a deformity, but I'm on the bigger side, yet have never had a problem getting a date. Hell, even the ones that rejected me never used my weight as a reason. You need to have some damn confidence in yourself. You say you've changed, but you really haven't... You've just pushed the blame away from girls and onto your mom. Learn to talk to people who accept you for who you are... You'll have more success that way, and it'll save you next years tuition.

I did have confidence to talk to women. I don't always look for the hottest girl in class. Women have always rejected me because of my body. This is what they always tell me. I am good person. I am not shy. I am well groomed. I love to have fun. I always let my personality shine around people.

I did not push the blame on to my mom. I place the blame on myself for having a poor attitude in high school. In high school I had a hard time of getting over girls who rejected. After getting rejected tons of times I started getting angry about it. I am too physically unattractive to be in a relationship. No one wants to bring home the deform kid. So, I have to make these changes. I don't have much of a choice. Make the change to find love or stay the same to be lonely.

Originally Posted by nuttychick

pfft and you don't know what it is like to suffer from anorexia
for 20 years because of an asshole man told you that you were getting fat 2 months after giving birth... to an already underweight woman sufferring from physical, sexual and mental abuse from said asshole was
life threating on many occassions.

Then there was Cervical Cancer

So whipdebloodydo Franklin you have funny ears..

pfft i could go on but this attention seeking tosser has pushed all the wrong buttons here

I am sorry you went through that. However, that is not experiencing being deformed.

Originally Posted by EvilEvilKitten

I was put into the hospital bleeding like a stuck pig and almost died at age 16 buddy-boy - so quit crying! Nor was I ever popular in high school and not much more so in college. But you don't see me fixing this and tucking that. Pfft, if they don't like the way I look - then, dammit, they can stop looking!

I am sorry you went through that. However, that is not experiencing being deformed.

[RATED-RKOFRANKLIN]

I know we do not always see eye to eye. I am going to get surgery. I do not want to be deformed. I no longer want to be treated different for being deformed. I am not asking for everyone to agree with my decision. All I am asking for is for everyone to respect my decision. It is my body and my choice.