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[nuttychick]

Originally Posted by King Rick

Oh damn girl. I'll get surgery to make my ears stick out more if you wanna use them as a way to keep me down .

She's right though Frankie. Grow your hair out. Take up guitar. Learn to rawk. Girls will be all over you.

Lol Rick after a while they may stretch anyway no need for surgery

[Zr2_EQX]

Originally Posted by lnt1103

Oh trust me I have, I've been one of the ones trying to help. Busting a person's chops for shits and giggles doesn't help, generally speaking.

I have offered many forms of advice. He blew them all off so guess what, time to have some fun. It might me cruel but Frankie is doing it to himself.

[Zr2_EQX]

Originally Posted by RATED-RKOFRANKLIN

I am not sure you understood me. The way it is spoken, it is said to pin the ears. Basically the doctor will perform surgery on my ears to make them look more normal instead of sticking out. My problem is more severe than most people with this problem because my ears stick out much more than most people with this problem. You may know it, but this is a deformity.

Ears that stick out

As you can see here my ears stick out much more than this guy.
Otoplasty for Ears that Stick Out in Male

You are who you are. You are trying to make yourself perfect, it is a risky thing to do. Everyone is different but that difference is what makes us all special.

[RATED-RKOFRANKLIN]

Originally Posted by Zr2_EQX

You are who you are. You are trying to make yourself perfect, it is a risky thing to do. Everyone is different but that difference is what makes us all special.

I agree with you to a certain extent. Being different can be special in many good ways, but not in all cases.

I have to do what I have do. I have to make changes. Women do not want me. I heard it from all of them. I have to at least try. If my changes do not work than so be it. At least I can say I tried.

As I have said no woman finds me attractive. I have to fix the unattractiveness of my body. Being different to the extent that women do not find me attractive is not special.

[bayonet777]

in what way unattractive as in weight looks habits etc.

[RATED-RKOFRANKLIN]

Originally Posted by bayonet777

in what way unattractive as in weight looks habits etc.

Everything about my body is unattractive. I don't have any good features.

[Brandye]

PLEASE, PLEASE, PLEASE, do not start this vicious circle again.

[RATED-RKOFRANKLIN]

Originally Posted by Brandye

PLEASE, PLEASE, PLEASE, do not start this vicious circle again.

Sorry, I am not trying to start another circle. I was just giving an update of where I am currently at.

I am very angry with my mother. However, she does not know. Friday I had dinner with an older married couple. They are both in their sixties. They are like family to me. They told me that, when I was a kid(in the 3rd grade) they tried to tell me mother to let them pay for cosmetic surgery for me. They asked her many times when I was young. She said no every time because she was scared that something bad would happen and that I would die. When I was younger I had the choice of surgery when my father was in the military. My mother told me not to do it, and let people accept me for who I am. I was young and foolish as a small child and agreed with my mother.

I feel as if my life could be totally different if my would have mother let me have the surgery earlier in my life. I am not saying I would be a great man with such a hot body. The way people treat me and see me as a person would be different. Maybe some girls would be interested in me if I was not deformed.

[nuttychick]

oH FFS Franklin just grow your hair over your ears . and stop trying to lay blame on anything and everything for your lack of "picking up woman skills"..

[lnt1103]

FFS is right. This thing so, incredibly, has ZILCH to do with the look of your frigging ears.

In principal Franklin, your mother was correct that people should accept you for who you are.

But others will never accept you for who you are if YOU CAN'T DO SO FIRST. And oh by the by, your ears have nothing to do with WHO you are, they have to do with HOW you look. So stop searching for every possible excuse to blame every possible person other than you. Wake up, smell what you're shoveling, and work on your ATTITUDES instead of your physical features.