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[RATED-RKOFRANKLIN]

I have been thinking about a few things. I know all of you say that I am a nerd. I don't want to be nerd. I have never been treated like one. No one has ever called me one before in the real world. Around my freshmen year of high school I stopped watching cartoons, and started to watch shows such as 24, Criminal Minds, House, ect. Later in High School I started to play video games less. I still play video games, but not often. I looked at how the nerds at my school dresses like, and I style is completely different. Nerds at my school dress Gothic and/or punk rock.

I no longer desire a "perfect" woman. They are way out of my league. I have no chance in hell to get a woman with the extremely high standards that I had. There are girls on campus who do not have the "perfect look", and I notice they are nice looking girls. I am far from perfect so I should not expect the same from women.

I just want an attractive nice looking girl who is right for me. Someone who can make me happy, and who I can make happy. I am not looking for someone just for sex. I want a real relationship. This has always been my desire.

However, I am not ready to ask out anyone. I need to continue to try to improve myself. As many of you said I am not a bad looking guy. Yet, women find me unattractive. I am trying to change my look. I don't want to look like a nerd because I know I am not one. I still have not found the look that works for men. Hopefully there is one for me. Does anyone have any suggestions of what styles I should try?

I must find what league I am in. What type of girls should I try to ask out on dates. I have asked out many types of girls such as nerdy girls, cool girls, party girls, shy girls, church girls, etc.

[King Rick]

Originally Posted by RATED-RKOFRANKLIN

I have been thinking about a few things. I know all of you say that I am a nerd. I don't want to be nerd. I have never been treated like one. No one has ever called me one before in the real world. Around my freshmen year of high school I stopped watching cartoons, and started to watch shows such as 24, Criminal Minds, House, ect. Later in High School I started to play video games less. I still play video games, but not often. I looked at how the nerds at my school dresses like, and I style is completely different. Nerds at my school dress Gothic and/or punk rock.

I no longer desire a "perfect" woman. They are way out of my league. I have no chance in hell to get a woman with the extremely high standards that I had. There are girls on campus who do not have the "perfect look", and I notice they are nice looking girls. I am far from perfect so I should not expect the same from women.

I just want an attractive nice looking girl who is right for me. Someone who can make me happy, and who I can make happy. I am not looking for someone just for sex. I want a real relationship. This has always been my desire.

However, I am not ready to ask out anyone. I need to continue to try to improve myself. As many of you said I am not a bad looking guy. Yet, women find me unattractive. I am trying to change my look. I don't want to look like a nerd because I know I am not one. I still have not found the look that works for men. Hopefully there is one for me. Does anyone have any suggestions of what styles I should try?

I must find what league I am in. What type of girls should I try to ask out on dates. I have asked out many types of girls such as nerdy girls, cool girls, party girls, shy girls, church girls, etc.

Well ...... I never thought I'd see the day where Frankie boy gave up the hopes and dreams of a Victoria Secret model...

Honestly, there isn't really a look for guys... It's the way you present yourself... Like... Your attitude.... I don't really have any tips for you.... I wish I did, because this is a moment in history I'm never going to forget, but forget the look... Work on the attitude and the girls will come

[EvilEvilKitten]

OMG!

<--now checking the ambient tempature of Hell

[Zr2_EQX]

Originally Posted by EvilEvilKitten

OMG!

<--now checking the ambient tempature of Hell

It Froze over! I heard there will be ice skating, skiing a sledding!

[nuttychick]

Originally Posted by Zr2_EQX

It Froze over! I heard there will be ice skating, skiing a sledding!

Oh bugga I was looking forward to the warmth

[lnt1103]

C'mon folks, grow up. Ridiculing him isn't productive. He sounds to me to be making an honest effort.

I do however, have to agree with Rick with the stuff he said about 'there's not really a look.....the way you present yourself......work on your attitude, the girls will come'.

There's more to the way you present yourself than just how you look.

[nuttychick]

Originally Posted by lnt1103

C'mon folks, grow up. Ridiculing him isn't productive. He sounds to me to be making an honest effort.
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RIDICULING ?????
Gee some people need to get or buy a sense of humour me thinks

[lnt1103]

Ridiculing...making fun...teasing....giving him shyt....call it what you will. All I'm saying is, with his history of reactions to that type of thing, it's going to do no good, so lets be constructive, shall we?

[nuttychick]

Originally Posted by lnt1103

Ridiculing...making fun...teasing....giving him shyt....call it what you will. All I'm saying is, with his history of reactions to that type of thing, it's going to do no good, so lets be constructive, shall we?

Being "constructive" has lead to almost 60 pages of going round and round in circles..

If he really is serious on this matter he won't need any more help
he will need to go through the numerous posts to find the answer to his questions

[RATED-RKOFRANKLIN]

I am thinking about saving money during the summer to pay for surgery to pin my ears. I believe it cost between $2500 and $4000.

I am also changing my diet to gain weight in muscle. I must eat 2200 calories to maintain the 155lbs I have now. I must eat about 3000 calories per day to gain weight. I also have to workout to build muscle and not fat. I know I said I weighted at 185, but reality strikes hard. My friend's weight machine must be broken to weight me at 185. I went to the gym on campus and I weight at 155. I said to myself, most women want a bigger man so I need to build up.

I talked to a new friend of mines. He is really a good honest guy. I asked him a few questions and he was honest with me. He said I do look like a nerd a little bit because of my big glasses, and my ears.