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[Zr2_EQX]

I have tried online dating for a few months. No one wanted to talk to me. I never received any messages back. I usally say "hello, if you want to talk just hit me up". My profiles do not mention breast size. I do not mention anything about my fantasy to titty fuck a woman.[/QUOTE]

Your response is "if you want to talk hit me up?" No shit you got no responses. That is a the dumbest line on the planet. Talk to them like an adult and not a 16 year old boy. In your email mention what you read about them or if you have common interests talk about that.

"Hit me up!!!" Frankie Frankie

[Massdebator]

The wheels on the bus go 'round and 'round...

[RATED-RKOFRANKLIN]

Sorry I did not want to sound lame and boring. It is how my generation speaks. I just was too worried about how to talk. I normally don't talk like that. I just did not want to get rejected. I should have been myself.

In some of my emails I sent I told the girl "Hello I'm Franklin. If you are interested let me know". I should have wrote more. It was my first time trying online dating, and I failed.

[mike99]

Originally Posted by RATED-RKOFRANKLIN

I will not open up anything for a fat woman.

Not even a refridgerator?

I talk about sex with my friends. People who have friends normally talk about sex with their friends. We are not going into deep details of what we do with who.

I guess i'm out of the loop on that one.

I don't talk about sex with anyone that isn't online.

[King Rick]

Originally Posted by RATED-RKOFRANKLIN

I will not open up anything for a fat woman.

Dude, it's assholes like you that cause some women to have low self esteem. You make yourself sound like your too good for a bigger woman. It pisses me off that your so shallow. I really hope a bigger woman puts you in your place one day and maybe you won't be such a dick. What are you going to do if (and this is a big if) you find a girl, and alot of her friends are on the bigger side? Are you going to say, "Oh I don't want to see your friends, they're too fat for me.". I can tell you what will happen then... But life is about learning shit the hard way, so have fun

[RATED-RKOFRANKLIN]

Originally Posted by King Rick

Dude, it's assholes like you that cause some women to have low self esteem. You make yourself sound like your too good for a bigger woman. It pisses me off that your so shallow. I really hope a bigger woman puts you in your place one day and maybe you won't be such a dick. What are you going to do if (and this is a big if) you find a girl, and alot of her friends are on the bigger side? Are you going to say, "Oh I don't want to see your friends, they're too fat for me.". I can tell you what will happen then... But life is about learning shit the hard way, so have fun

There is no reason to be mad. I am not attracted to fat woman. I won't date one. I will give them respect. I have friends who are fat. I am not attracted to most black women. Is that wrong too? You can't force someone to be attracted to a type of person.

[nuttychick]

Originally Posted by King Rick

Dude, it's assholes like you that cause some women to have low self esteem. You make yourself sound like your too good for a bigger woman. It pisses me off that your so shallow. I really hope a bigger woman puts you in your place one day and maybe you won't be such a dick. :

My sentiments exactly...
Bet all the big girls have their standards too.. and Frankie wouldnt even get to first base with them...

Massdebator .... The wheels on the bus go 'round and 'round...
Yeah they do and I am starting to feel sick from all the round and round motion....


There is a saying here in NZ... "He couldn't even get a root in a whorehouse"

[Massdebator]

There is a saying here in the States... "A bird in the hand is worth two in the bush," but that doesn't apply here. Franklin doesn't have a bird in his hand (Read: a date this Friday evening), because he's not a team player. I keep writing long, thoughtful posts for Franklin in this thread and not posting them. I get about halfway through writing a post, and then I give up every time because I can't think of a better way to say what we've already said.

Franklin, there are professionals in many different fields that can help you develop effective (verbal and non-verbal) communication skills. If your school has a counseling center, go there and ask if any of the clinical psychologists working there have any experience in social psychology work or a related sub-field. If so, start counseling sessions with that psychologist so that they can aid you in developing effective ways of improving the way others perceive you and the way that you communicate. Tell them about your problems getting a date. If you don't find anyone with that speciality, pick one at random and start counseling anyway. There is nothing embarrassing about counseling services. They will get to the root of why you think and act the way you do and make sure that you see it too. They can even help you with your insecurity about your ears. Best of luck!

[RATED-RKOFRANKLIN]

Originally Posted by Massdebator

There is a saying here in the States... "A bird in the hand is worth two in the bush," but that doesn't apply here. Franklin doesn't have a bird in his hand (Read: a date this Friday evening), because he's not a team player. I keep writing long, thoughtful posts for Franklin in this thread and not posting them. I get about halfway through writing a post, and then I give up every time because I can't think of a better way to say what we've already said.

Franklin, there are professionals in many different fields that can help you develop effective (verbal and non-verbal) communication skills. If your school has a counseling center, go there and ask if any of the clinical psychologists working there have any experience in social psychology work or a related sub-field. If so, start counseling sessions with that psychologist so that they can aid you in developing effective ways of improving the way others perceive you and the way that you communicate. Tell them about your problems getting a date. If you don't find anyone with that speciality, pick one at random and start counseling anyway. There is nothing embarrassing about counseling services. They will get to the root of why you think and act the way you do and make sure that you see it too. They can even help you with your insecurity about your ears. Best of luck!

I do have effective communication skills. I don't have any problems communicating with people in public. I have made plenty of good friendships. I am taking a public speaking class, and I am doing very well in the class. People understand what I am telling them in my speeches.

I am not insecure about my ears. I've accepted how God made my body. No one is perfect. There is no reason why you keep saying this. I do hear negative comments from girls about my ears. How they think about my ears is not the same why I think about my ears.

[nuttychick]

Originally Posted by RATED-RKOFRANKLIN

I do have effective communication skills. I don't have any problems communicating with people in public. I have made plenty of good friendships. I am taking a public speaking class, and I am doing very well in the class. People understand what I am telling them in my speeches.

I am not insecure about my ears. I've accepted how God made my body. No one is perfect. There is no reason why you keep saying this. I do hear negative comments from girls about my ears. How they think about my ears is not the same why I think about my ears.

So if you have no problems.. why do you continue to post ...
We have nothing more to offer you and very little patience to carry this on...
Stop taking the piss and get out there and find a woman.. You will not find one here.. we will not hook you up..
Is that clear?