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[Humble]

OK Franklin, let's try approaching it from a different angle. You haven't had a girlfriend, but clearly desire one. Tell us what YOU think is the problem. Why do YOU think girls refuse to date you? You must surely have some sort of hypothesis about it.

[RATED-RKOFRANKLIN]

Originally Posted by Humble

OK Franklin, let's try approaching it from a different angle. You haven't had a girlfriend, but clearly desire one. Tell us what YOU think is the problem. Why do YOU think girls refuse to date you? You must surely have some sort of hypothesis about it.

Women think I am too ugly to date. I hear girls laughing about my ears. I am not hearing things, I do hear them "look at those ears!" "Freak". I am not just randomly making this an excuse. It's what I have been told by women. They say there is nothing really wrong with me for who I am inside. As I said people in general say I am a good, nice, funny, and sweat person.

I think another thing is that I am not a stereotype. I hangout with a lot of different type people, and able to connect with them. I am kinda randomly of everything a little. I am my own person. I don't act like most stereotype black guys on campus so that pretty much kills any chance with a black girl on campus. It really does not matter because I am not attracted to most black women anyway.

I am a open person. I don't have problems making friends. People normally enjoy me being around. I smile often. I don't have any drama in my life. I have a job on campus. I have a good family. I have caring friends.

I talk to girls on campus, and I am honest with them. I don't overlook a girl because of her breast size. I am a boob guy, but I would not ignore a girl with small breast. Most of the girls I have asked out on dates have small breast. I got to know them for who they are. They were really great girls, but had no interest in me.

I always to get to know the girls. I listen to what they tell me. I have a good memory so I can remember most if not all of the conversation. I don't try to talk too much about myself unless she keeps asking me questions.

I normally don't look at a girl, and say noway. The only time I do that is when she is fat, dirty, and/or wearing trashy clothes(clothes that are dirty, or with a lot of holes in them). As I said I take care of myself. I keep myself well groom. I expect the same from a girl.

I don't expect a girl to be perfect because I am far from perfect. She may not be the smartest. She could have an annoying laugh. She could have a little belly fat. She may not have much of an ass. She could tell me that I can not titty fuck her, and I will respect that because it is her body.

[nuttychick]

You only ask out "White Girls"??

[King Rick]

Originally Posted by nuttychick

You only ask out "White Girls"??

The other colours are broken. Franklin and his friends now hang out every Friday night wearing ghost costumes I'm guessing.

[RATED-RKOFRANKLIN]

Originally Posted by nuttychick

You only ask out "White Girls"??

Race does not matter to me. I just don't find many black women attractive. I have only asked out three black girls, one Hispanic, and one Asian. I am mostly attracted to white girls.

[nuttychick]

Originally Posted by RATED-RKOFRANKLIN

Race does not matter to me. I just don't find many black women attractive. I have only asked out three black girls, one Hispanic, and one Asian. I am mostly attracted to white girls.

mmmmm ok... It is cutting your options down tho,,,,
So what don't you find attractive in most black woman??
And maybe with the white girls you ask out ... they don't like black boys???


I also don't get this "Dirty" .... you expect a girl to be clean and tidy 24/7....
lol you would hate me after I have been on my dirtbike, in the garden, rolling around the yard with my dogs,
hot and sweaty from the gym.... from baking with flour everywhere....

Jezzz I hate using this black and white language.. after all we all have the same colour blood running through our veins....

[RATED-RKOFRANKLIN]

Originally Posted by nuttychick

mmmmm ok... It is cutting your options down tho,,,,
So what don't you find attractive in most black woman??
And maybe with the white girls you ask out ... they don't like black boys???


I also don't get this "Dirty" .... you expect a girl to be clean and tidy 24/7....
lol you would hate me after I have been on my dirtbike, in the garden, rolling around the yard with my dogs,
hot and sweaty from the gym.... from baking with flour everywhere....

Jezzz I hate using this black and white language.. after all we all have the same colour blood running through our veins....

Most of the black girls who I have known through the years I were not attracted to them. I don't find most black women physically attractive. I am not talking about breast. I am talking about the body from head to toe. Please do not take this the wrong way. Most black girls I know are ghetto. I will not date someone who is ghetto. I do not share any common interest with them. I also can not connect with someone who is ghetto to be more than just a friend. I am not saying all black people are ghetto. Most of the young black students on campus are ghetto.

What I mean by dirty is not being groom. Wearing clothes that are not washed or smell bad. A girl who does not fix her hair. Her hair does not have to be very pretty, but don't let it look like you just woke up.

[nuttychick]

Originally Posted by RATED-RKOFRANKLIN

Most of the black girls who I have known through the years I were not attracted to them. I don't find most black women physically attractive. I am not talking about breast. I am talking about the body from head to toe. Please do not take this the wrong way. Most black girls I know are ghetto. I will not date someone who is ghetto. I do not share any common interest with them. I also can not connect with someone who is ghetto to be more than just a friend. I am not saying all black people are ghetto. Most of the young black students on campus are ghetto.

What I mean by dirty is not being groom. Wearing clothes that are not washed or smell bad. A girl who does not fix her hair. Her hair does not have to be very pretty, but don't let it look like you just woke up.

So how do you define ghetto???

[RATED-RKOFRANKLIN]

Originally Posted by nuttychick

So how do you define ghetto???

This is not the best definition. Being ghetto is acting like an idiot, using racial slurs, being rude, being loud, using a lot of slang words, listening to rap music, dressing like a stereotype thug, ect. Being ghetto is more of a life style in my opinion.

[nuttychick]

Originally Posted by RATED-RKOFRANKLIN

This is not the best definition. Being ghetto is acting like an idiot, using racial slurs, being rude, being loud, using a lot of slang words, listening to rap music, dressing like a stereotype thug, ect. Being ghetto is more of a life style in my opinion.

My defination of Ghetto (keep in mind Where I live) is poor and black
who live in government housing ...

Sometimes I act like an idiot, use racial slurs (with my maori friends) am rude,loud, use slang words, listen to rap music, and dress in baggy clothes... Am I ghetto???
Because underneath all that I am 5ft 11, 62kgs blonde hair, blue eyes and A DD cup.. With a very respectable Job a husband and 2 kids...

Once you get over your prejudices and look on the inside of people you may find you will become a better person and maybe find a woman....

And please don't spout off at how you aren't prejudice.. because even tho I don't know you in real life I have read all you have written...

and this thread is a waste of space... NO ONE CAN HELP YOU...BUT YOU