No Solution

[King Rick]

Originally Posted by RATED-RKOFRANKLIN

I have not used this as my own entertainment. I asked serious questions, and wanted serious answers.

There is nothing wrong with my behavior. I am a good person. I don't have any drama.

I am not warped up in myself. I think about what a girl wants in a relationship. Girls tell me that I am a nice, sweet, and funny guy. I show women respect. I do not see them as sex objects. I want to be loved and I want to give love back(I'm not talking about sex). I keep myself well groom. I have a job to pay my bills, and to save money. I have plenty of female friends.

I get to know the girl for who she is. What is her favorite color? Where is she from? What is her culture? Does she like TV? What makes her truly happy? Does she at least want to be my friend? Do I make her laugh?

Didn't girls say last week that you were ugly and not funny? You suddenly became Mr. Awesome in that week?

[EvilEvilKitten]

The ONLY way his ears are a problem is he doesn't LISTEN.

and all he does is WHINE.

[RATED-RKOFRANKLIN]

Originally Posted by Humble

Franklin, if it is as you say, maybe it's your ears killing your chances with women after all. Not necessarily because women are as repulsed by them as you claim, but perhaps they make you feel self-conscious and undermine your confidence. If that is the case, you may wish to consider cosmetic surgery after all. Not for the sake of women, but for the sake of yourself, so that you feel more comfortable with your body and thus are not inhibited in searching for the love you crave.

I am not self-conscious about my ears.

Originally Posted by King Rick

Didn't girls say last week that you were ugly and not funny? You suddenly became Mr. Awesome in that week?

Yes, girls do say I am ugly. I always been told by girls I am a nice, sweet, funny guy. YOU said I am not funny.

[lnt1103]

OK, we are now on page 46 of talking in circles with someone who refuses to give any credence to anything anyone says that he disagrees with or prefers not to hear, and in fact makes accusations that those comments are mean-spirited, when in reality they are intended to help(for the most part). Man, that's a long, droning sentence-sorry.

Anyway, I'm thinking he's feeding off the attention. Every time responses slow down he comes back in and starts it up again himself, even after he's claimed to have given up on us and sought advice elsewhere. I think we need to leave well enough alone, since he doesn't care to hear what we have to say anyway.

[RATED-RKOFRANKLIN]

Originally Posted by lnt1103

OK, we are now on page 46 of talking in circles with someone who refuses to give any credence to anything anyone says that he disagrees with or prefers not to hear, and in fact makes accusations that those comments are mean-spirited, when in reality they are intended to help(for the most part). Man, that's a long, droning sentence-sorry.

Anyway, I'm thinking he's feeding off the attention. Every time responses slow down he comes back in and starts it up again himself, even after he's claimed to have given up on us and sought advice elsewhere. I think we need to leave well enough alone, since he doesn't care to hear what we have to say anyway.

I have heard what people have said. I the things they told me to do are things I have been doing for years. The same imply to a lot of you who don't care what I have to say. I have been trying to improve myself. I have been making changes. I have a few new changes coming. I plan on getting new glasses, and I am growing a beard to change my look.

Yes, there are plenty of mean spirited comments with tons of name calling. Plenty of members have already said they only used this thread as a joke.

[nuttychick]

Originally Posted by lnt1103

Anyway, I'm thinking he's feeding off the attention.

Yes he is and it is time for it to stop....

[VanellaSchnella]

YouTube - Lupe fiasco - and he gets the girl (full version)

[springfever]

I doubt this would be a joke if you listened.

You say girls say you are "nice, sweet, funny" ...that is often friend teriotory, rightlly or wrongly girls often don't go for "nice" girls.
But more importantly, your attitude, as others have said. You won't meet somone if you have some flexibility. Whatever happened to general chemistry with somone? Run before you can walk...there is probs somone, somwhere that likes you (it is a strange world..each to there own) ...but you are too busy comparing them to your standards and tape measure that you overlook them, before you even get a chance to get to know them.

i can't remember...but I think you said you had never kissed a girl (it is a long thread..). Well, if you had, you may realise that you can get aroused by things other than big tits, even if that is your preferance. A persons touch can be more arousing. So maybe a lil less definate standards are appropriate.


I would lol so much if you found this "perfect girl"...started to get intimate and realised she had been wearing chicken fillets the whole time and was an A-cup.

[King Rick]

Originally Posted by springfever

I doubt this would be a joke if you listened.

You say girls say you are "nice, sweet, funny" ...that is often friend teriotory, rightlly or wrongly girls often don't go for "nice" girls.
But more importantly, your attitude, as others have said. You won't meet somone if you have some flexibility. Whatever happened to general chemistry with somone? Run before you can walk...there is probs somone, somwhere that likes you (it is a strange world..each to there own) ...but you are too busy comparing them to your standards and tape measure that you overlook them, before you even get a chance to get to know them.

i can't remember...but I think you said you had never kissed a girl (it is a long thread..). Well, if you had, you may realise that you can get aroused by things other than big tits, even if that is your preferance. A persons touch can be more arousing. So maybe a lil less definate standards are appropriate.


I would lol so much if you found this "perfect girl"...started to get intimate and realised she had been wearing chicken fillets the whole time and was an A-cup.

I'd lol about that too, because we all know he would come here and tell us about it

[RATED-RKOFRANKLIN]

Originally Posted by springfever

I doubt this would be a joke if you listened.

You say girls say you are "nice, sweet, funny" ...that is often friend teriotory, rightlly or wrongly girls often don't go for "nice" girls.
But more importantly, your attitude, as others have said. You won't meet somone if you have some flexibility. Whatever happened to general chemistry with somone? Run before you can walk...there is probs somone, somwhere that likes you (it is a strange world..each to there own) ...but you are too busy comparing them to your standards and tape measure that you overlook them, before you even get a chance to get to know them.

i can't remember...but I think you said you had never kissed a girl (it is a long thread..). Well, if you had, you may realise that you can get aroused by things other than big tits, even if that is your preferance. A persons touch can be more arousing. So maybe a lil less definate standards are appropriate.


I would lol so much if you found this "perfect girl"...started to get intimate and realised she had been wearing chicken fillets the whole time and was an A-cup.

I did listen. I do get to know the girls to build chemistry. I don't overlook girls with small breast. I have no problems with a girl who has small breast. Maybe you should listen because this has already been stated A LOT. I have been doing almost everything that has been advised to me for years.

Originally Posted by springfever

there is probs somone, somwhere that likes you (it is a strange world..each to there own)

So it would be strange for anyone to like me.