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[RATED-RKOFRANKLIN]

Originally Posted by nuttychick

lol @ dropping standards to a b cup

I was in high school than. Not many of the girls had large breast who were slender. There were a few with c cups but personality wise they were not my type. So in high school I didn't expect there to be many girls with at least a c cup.

[EvilEvilKitten]

Dude, there is no "reset button" in real life.

In all honesty - your looks don't matter at all but your attitude - seeing insults/disrespect/lies where there are none - is killing you and ruining your chances.

Your standards are semi-unrealistic and you're limiting yourself and your choices to physical attributes which, as your church should have taught you, aren't important. Character is the most important thing you should want in a woman. Things like kindness, intelligence, drive, an inner joy that shines out lighting up the world, a non-malicious sense of humor, the ability to appreciate the simple subtle pleasures - those are what you should be seeking - more than big breasts. Remember - it is the PERSON not the PACKAGING that truly matters.

This applies to yourself as well. If the girl cannot see past your ears to the person within, then she's not the girl for you.
If you cannot see past her B-cups to the person within then you are not the man for her.

Stop believing your friends. Begin believing us. Work on your attitude and your grammar.

[RATED-RKOFRANKLIN]

Trust me my friends did not influence me on my standards. What you mention is what I do seek for also. I look at the body and the soul. I have known plenty of hot women and did not ask them out on dates. Mainly because of their personality. They were not bad people. It just relationship wise was not attractive.

[Zr2_EQX]

Wow, I step away for a little bit and I miss out. Yes Franklin, I am a guy and you look like a geek, and that is putting it nicely. Character means so much. If all you want is big breasts then go to a strip club where you can touch and fuck. That is all you want, nothing more. You want a cheap night with a hooker and then send her home. Take your list of sex positions and dreams and call a service. They can find you your "perfect" woman. Grow up, you are 19 not 12.

[nuttychick]

What is the first thing you notice about a woman when you approach her..

Please answer honestly

[Zr2_EQX]

You don't want personality. Please! Stop playing video games. Brett Farve is not a hobby.

[EvilEvilKitten]

I don't care about your "standards" basicly, you should have, at this point in your life, only 3: female, breathing, species: homo sapiens.

It is your attitude that really needs the work.

[Zr2_EQX]

To all the ladies on the site and around the world, I want to apologize. This moron Franklin does not represent all of us males! He is making me mad that he thinks and acts like he does.

[RATED-RKOFRANKLIN]

Originally Posted by nuttychick

What is the first thing you notice about a woman when you approach her..

Please answer honestly

It depends. If am I attracted to her I notice her body. After that I'll try to get to know her.

Originally Posted by EvilEvilKitten

I don't care about your "standards" basicly, you should have, at this point in your life, only 3: female, breathing, species: homo sapiens.

It is your attitude that really needs the work.

How should my attitude be from your point of view?

Originally Posted by Zr2_EQX

To all the ladies on the site and around the world, I want to apologize. This moron Franklin does not represent all of us males! He is making me mad that he thinks and acts like he does.

Why am I making you made? You can judge me on how I think because of how I expressed myself on the forums. Yet you never met me and you are judging how I act as well.

Originally Posted by Zr2_EQX

You don't want personality. Please! Stop playing video games. Brett Farve is not a hobby.

Do you realize people of all ages and social groups play video games? Brett Favre is a hobby. I collection his sports gear, trading cards of Favre, and any other collectibles.

[EvilEvilKitten]

You need to stop thinking that dating is "all about you".

What you want - not important.
What you like - not important.
Not yet.

You NEED to start thinking "what does she want"?
You NEED to find out who she is by LISTENING to her WITHOUT making judgments or running it through that filter in your brain.

This means putting yourself second - for now.

You see, you're making a common mistake - you're focusing on "you" but you're not going to be dating "you", you're going to be dating "them" so you NEED to begin thinking about "them". This is exactly like hunting. Try thinking like the tiger to catch the tiger.

Your standards, etc. ONLY come into play AFTER you've gotten a girl(s). Once you have learned how to get and hold a girl's attention, and ignite her desire,THEN you can start bringing your standards, etc. into play. Not before.

and, please, the word is "mad" not "made".