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[RATED-RKOFRANKLIN]

That is not true. I gave a good statement about why I am not a nerd. Members still say I'm a nerd and ignored what I said. I gave good reasons about why I am not a nerd. To me what is being said is people who like sports are nerds. Anyone who plays a video game is a nerd which means most if not all teens who go to school are nerds. It also says to me, Brett Favre jerseys are dorky clothes. Well that means all Packer and NFL fans dress like dorks. Seriously none of the things I mention are nerdy. This is another reason why my situation is not getting help from most members. They have the choice to help me or not. Telling someone they are a nerd because of watching sports, playing sports games, wearing sports gear, and playing videos is a very bad judgment. Well from what members say than that must make jocks and cool popular people in school nerds. They also dress like dorks.

I have said numerous times I have already done most if not all of the advise that has been give to me.

I have also stated why I do not have a attuide/macho/temper. Members do NOT understand what I mean by going off on someone. I do not go off on people for no reason. I do not go off on someone just for little things. I do not fight them. I use words. I gave an example of a real situation in which I went off on a girl. I did not hit her. I did not touch her. I just disrespected her by using words.

To restate the situation in which I went off. I had a crush on a girl my junior year in high school. She knew that I had a crush on her so she started to write me love letters. She told me that she liked me. Me and her started talking for about a month. We did not go on any dates. I gave her my number but she never called me which was weird since she told me she likes me. Eventually she told me she never liked me. She never wanted me. She was my friend and I felt hurt and angry she did this. Since she never liked me in that manner than she should not have lied about it. I would have been still been friends with her. I was angry and I said some nasty things about her.

The average man and woman would have said some nasty things to someone who was playing games with them. That does not mean they have a temper, attitude, or being macho. They are telling someone about themselves.

[nuttychick]

Go to a physchologist... You may be suffering from Paranoia...

[EvilEvilKitten]

Yes, Franklin, she lied to you and I told you why she but all of that just went right over your head.

You simply are not yet mature enough to date anyone - so just go back to your books and give all of this a rest.

[funinthesun]

You don't understand that the essence of being considered a nerd or geek is how you carry yourself. For someone who claims not to be superficial, you sure do think that wearing a Brett Farve jersey has a lot of meaning to it.


Now the fact that you list "Brett Farve" as a hobby - that means something.

[RATED-RKOFRANKLIN]

Originally Posted by funinthesun

You don't understand that the essence of being considered a nerd or geek is how you carry yourself. For someone who claims not to be superficial, you sure do think that wearing a Brett Farve jersey has a lot of meaning to it.


Now the fact that you list "Brett Farve" as a hobby - that means something.

I am a fan of Brett Favre. I collect his books, trading cards, video games with him on the cover, clothing, etc. Sounds like a hobby. Do you need a Webster? I never said nor even state in a way to make it seems that wearing a "Brett Favre" jersey has alot of meaning to it. I used it as an example to prove that sports jerseys in general are not dorky. You took what I said way out of proportion.

Originally Posted by RATED-RKOFRANKLIN

That is not true. I gave a good statement about why I am not a nerd. Members still say I'm a nerd and ignored what I said. I gave good reasons about why I am not a nerd. To me what is being said is people who like sports are nerds. Anyone who plays a video game is a nerd which means most if not all teens who go to school are nerds. It also says to me, Brett Favre jerseys are dorky clothes. Well that means all Packer and NFL fans dress like dorks. Seriously none of the things I mention are nerdy. This is another reason why my situation is not getting help from most members. They have the choice to help me or not. Telling someone they are a nerd because of watching sports, playing sports games, wearing sports gear, and playing videos is a very bad judgment. Well from what members say than that must make jocks and cool popular people in school nerds. They also dress like dorks.

I have said numerous times I have already done most if not all of the advise that has been give to me.

I have also stated why I do not have a attuide/macho/temper. Members do NOT understand what I mean by going off on someone. I do not go off on people for no reason. I do not go off on someone just for little things. I do not fight them. I use words. I gave an example of a real situation in which I went off on a girl. I did not hit her. I did not touch her. I just disrespected her by using words.

To restate the situation in which I went off. I had a crush on a girl my junior year in high school. She knew that I had a crush on her so she started to write me love letters. She told me that she liked me. Me and her started talking for about a month. We did not go on any dates. I gave her my number but she never called me which was weird since she told me she likes me. Eventually she told me she never liked me. She never wanted me. She was my friend and I felt hurt and angry she did this. Since she never liked me in that manner than she should not have lied about it. I would have been still been friends with her. I was angry and I said some nasty things about her.

The average man and woman would have said some nasty things to someone who was playing games with them. That does not mean they have a temper, attitude, or being macho. They are telling someone about themselves.

[nuttychick]

Main Entry:
nerd Listen to the pronunciation of nerd
Pronunciation:
\ˈnərd\
Function:
noun
Etymology:
perhaps from nerd, a creature in the children's book If I Ran the Zoo (1950) by Dr. Seuss (Theodor Geisel)
Date:
1951

: an unstylish, unattractive, or socially inept person ; especially : one slavishly devoted to intellectual or academic pursuits <computer nerds>Brett Favre fans






Main Entry:
geek Listen to the pronunciation of geek
Pronunciation:
\ˈgēk\
Function:
noun
Etymology:
probably from English dialect geek, geck fool, from Low German geck, from Middle Low German
Date:
1914

1 : a carnival performer often billed as a wild man whose act usually includes biting the head off a live chicken or snake 2 : a person often of an intellectual bent who is disliked 3 : an enthusiast or expert especially in a technological field or activity <computer geek>
— geek·dom Listen to the pronunciation of geekdom \ˈgēk-dəm\ noun
— geek·i·ness noun
— geeky Listen to the pronunciation of geeky \ˈgē-kē\ adjective




Main Entry:
1jerk Listen to the pronunciation of 1jerk
Pronunciation:
\ˈjərk\
Function:
noun
Etymology:
probably alteration of yerk
Date:
1575

1: a single quick motion of short duration2 a: jolting, bouncing, or thrusting motions b: a tendency to produce spasmodic motions3 a: an involuntary spasmodic muscular movement due to reflex action bplural : involuntary twitchings due to nervous excitement4 a: an annoyingly stupid or foolish person b: an unlikable person ; especially : one who is cruel, rude, or small-minded5: the pushing of a weight from shoulder height to a position overhead in weight lifting

[RATED-RKOFRANKLIN]

Originally Posted by EvilEvilKitten

You absolute nimrod! Women do not know you so they do not know whether you would or you would not hit them so they err on the side of caution and not just with you but with every unknown male they meet. Once again, you are assuming that EVERY statement made is ALL ABOUT YOU.

That is the height of arrogance - thinking everything is all about you. I was explaining why women behave as they do - nothing was ABOUT YOU in that statement.

I do wish you would learn to read.

Of course you don't handle criticism well, look at what you tell people: you say they lie, you say they make false assumptions about you, you say they twist your words - YOU ARE ACTING LIKE A CHILD - therefore you do not take criticism well.

Stop with the petty "you lied to me" whining! Who cares about such stuff. Pffft! Nonsense - the fact is that you have no real wish to date, get married, etc. I can say this is a fact because you are NOT willing to do what is necessary to get what you profess you want.

BTW 'cheating' does not apply until you're married. Only husbands have any rights - never boyfriends.

These lies and false assumptions are what you and other members have judged me on. I have not been judged by the facts. It is plain and simple. It is not nonsense because I'm not getting help from most people in this thread. Instead I am being thrown advise that has nothing to do with me. People say stop being a nerd or a geek. Well I never was one so how does that help me? Others say I have a temper and could harm a woman because of it. Well I don't have one so that does not help me. Some say I wear dorky clothes. Well if that is the case than a lot of men in the United States dress like dorks!

I'm getting advise that deals by the facts. Instead I'm getting advise that does not have anything to do with me.

You say I can't handle criticism. There has been false assumptions in this thread about nerds, tempers, and clothing. Stating things that are not true about me is not giving me criticism.

You say I am not "mature". Yet it is you and some others who are doing the name calling ans disrespectful slurs. You're and the other members who said I am immature are hypocrites.

[RATED-RKOFRANKLIN]

Originally Posted by nuttychick

Main Entry:
nerd Listen to the pronunciation of nerd
Pronunciation:
\ˈnərd\
Function:
noun
Etymology:
perhaps from nerd, a creature in the children's book If I Ran the Zoo (1950) by Dr. Seuss (Theodor Geisel)
Date:
1951

: an unstylish, unattractive, or socially inept person ; especially : one slavishly devoted to intellectual or academic pursuits <computer nerds>Brett Favre fans






Main Entry:
geek Listen to the pronunciation of geek
Pronunciation:
\ˈgēk\
Function:
noun
Etymology:
probably from English dialect geek, geck fool, from Low German geck, from Middle Low German
Date:
1914

1 : a carnival performer often billed as a wild man whose act usually includes biting the head off a live chicken or snake 2 : a person often of an intellectual bent who is disliked 3 : an enthusiast or expert especially in a technological field or activity <computer geek>
— geek·dom Listen to the pronunciation of geekdom \ˈgēk-dəm\ noun
— geek·i·ness noun
— geeky Listen to the pronunciation of geeky \ˈgē-kē\ adjective




Main Entry:
1jerk Listen to the pronunciation of 1jerk
Pronunciation:
\ˈjərk\
Function:
noun
Etymology:
probably alteration of yerk
Date:
1575

1: a single quick motion of short duration2 a: jolting, bouncing, or thrusting motions b: a tendency to produce spasmodic motions3 a: an involuntary spasmodic muscular movement due to reflex action bplural : involuntary twitchings due to nervous excitement4 a: an annoyingly stupid or foolish person b: an unlikable person ; especially : one who is cruel, rude, or small-minded5: the pushing of a weight from shoulder height to a position overhead in weight lifting

Nice post. None of that applies to me. I would love to know your source because Brett Fans are listed as nerds! Wow you are saying the entire population of state of Wisconsin are nerds! Wow you are so damn dumb.

My clothes. People often complement me on my clothes. At church I always get positive remarks about my clothes more than anyone. At school I received positive remarks as well.

I do good school. I don't focus all of my attention on my books. I don't study as hard as the top students. I average a 2.96 GPA which is a B average.

I have many friends. I can talk to and relate to many different types of people. I'm very out going and sociable.

So at the end of the day. You have yet again failed. Instead of admitting you were wrong. You went ahead and shown me that you based your judgment on me off of nothing. Do you just realize that you helped my argument?

If you don't want to help then don't. There is no reason to judge me off of things that are not true. That is not helping my situation. It does not apply to me so why even do it let alone listen to it. If you don't want to help then fine that is your choice. Don't come in a thread causing all of this drama.

[nuttychick]

Lol you are such a fabulous guy.. Yet All Woman find you disgusting...

And We judge you on what you have told us.. So either you Lied from the start. and are a completely cool guy or you told the truth and you are a pathetic child? Which is it?


And the only help we can give you after all these pages is maybe pool all our money together
and buy you a mail order bride

[Zr2_EQX]

Even a mail order bride will not be good enough!