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[RATED-RKOFRANKLIN]

Originally Posted by EvilEvilKitten

Franklin - we do not tolerate disrespect either.
Stop showing us disrespect.

We are not twisting your words.
We are not lying.
We are not making false assumptions about you.

You ARE being defensive. Overly defensive, in my not at all humble opinion.
As thin-skinned as you are in here - how do you manage to survive in the real world?

Do you really think Z2's going to go away just because you told him to?

You do not handle rejection well.
You do not handle criticism well.
Both of those will have to change.

I have been offended by statements like these. All of the are lies and false assumptions.

Right here you just assumed I ask out women in a arrogant manner.

Originally Posted by EvilEvilKitten

Telling someone something negative usually does hurt their feelings. Ugly? How so? Confident? I doubt it was the "confidence without arrogance" that I specified. You can be as "cocky" and "macho" as you want but unless it is innate and without the "strut of arrogance" or "penis-waving" - it won't work and your show of 'confidence' will feel false to women.

This statement by you offended me. I have never harmed a woman. I will never hit a woman. Yet you made this bold statement.

Originally Posted by EvilEvilKitten

Women lie to save your pride and to keep themselves from getting beaten up.

Here I am accused as having a temper. This is another lie about me. I stated that I do NOT accept disrespect from people. That does not mean I will harm someone or cause people to get harmed. I am 100% sure that everyone has defended themselves(NOT physically) by people who do wrong to them.

Would you just say nothing to a boyfriend who cheated on you? I'm sure something would be said and he would be told about himself. I do not mean this in any violent matter.

Originally Posted by funinthesun

You are skipping over posts that don't fit what you think the answer to your question should be. Frankly it would be a disservice to women to continue to offer help to get you a date with the attitude you have. Even if you do get a date - what happens if you run into an idiot at dinner who's had a bad day and wants to start a fight so picks on you? Which do you think is more important to the girl - your pride or HER SAFETY. I am only bothering posting at this point because those things are better known BEFORE YOU'RE SENT TO THE HOSPITAL FOR BEING A DUMB TEENAGER WITH A CHIP ON HIS SHOULDER WHO LETS HIS TEMPER GET IN THE WAY OF KEEPING HIMSELF AND THOSE AROUND HIM SAFE.

Why do you think I don't handle rejection well?

[LickMyGamete]

Originally Posted by RATED-RKOFRANKLIN

As for what you said about my standards I have to disagree with. I would not be happy with someone who does not apply to all of my standards. I'm not asking for much in the personality and non-physical standards. I'm going asking two physical standards. They are a must for me. Some friends say I'm asking for too much and than others say I'm not asking for too much. I love slender women with big breast. I not attracted to fat women nor small breast. Fat women and small breast turn me off. God made me this way. Everyone has different turn ons and turn offs. It would not make much sense to date someone who turns you off.

Wait, Franklin - that's all you have to say? You called me a liar and said I made up the part about you only caring for the physical part. Yet up there is your own quote. What part of "I'm not asking for much in the personality and non physical standards..I'm asking for two physical standards, they are a must for me," isn't clear?

How am I lying? Don't get side tracked by Evil and all these other posts. I CLEARLY caught you in a lie and have the proof to show it.

[nuttychick]

Originally Posted by RATED-RKOFRANKLIN

Why do you think I don't handle rejection well?

Because you have been told by numerous people who haven't
met you (or ever likely too.. thanx gawd for that) that you are ugly, a geek, a nerd, an immature little kid, you dress like a dork, and some little wanka who tosses off to porn all the time.. and many more things,
and It seems to upset you.... ie.. We are rejecting you and you hate it.... lol

CLEAR?

Oh and PS.. the FALSE ACCUSATIONS of lies is a huge give away

[funinthesun]

Originally Posted by funinthesun

That'll only happen if he actually reads the posts word for word instead of stopping and defending himself every time he sees a keyword that triggers his ego. Side note curiosity - perhaps he's from a region where they speak pidgin?(hopefully)

Ah, after a wonderful weekend getaway date I see nothing's changed. Catching up on this thread was like pulling teeth only less productive.

[bayonet777]

where is a firing squad when i need one id love to put this small child out of his misery

[EvilEvilKitten]

You absolute nimrod! Women do not know you so they do not know whether you would or you would not hit them so they err on the side of caution and not just with you but with every unknown male they meet. Once again, you are assuming that EVERY statement made is ALL ABOUT YOU.

That is the height of arrogance - thinking everything is all about you. I was explaining why women behave as they do - nothing was ABOUT YOU in that statement.

I do wish you would learn to read.

Of course you don't handle criticism well, look at what you tell people: you say they lie, you say they make false assumptions about you, you say they twist your words - YOU ARE ACTING LIKE A CHILD - therefore you do not take criticism well.

Stop with the petty "you lied to me" whining! Who cares about such stuff. Pffft! Nonsense - the fact is that you have no real wish to date, get married, etc. I can say this is a fact because you are NOT willing to do what is necessary to get what you profess you want.

BTW 'cheating' does not apply until you're married. Only husbands have any rights - never boyfriends.

[RATED-RKOFRANKLIN]

I have received enough disrespect from this forum. I am finished here. I came here for help not to be called an nimrod, idiot, jerk, a child, etc. There is a way to speak to people and that is not how. I've been a member of some forums. Some are good and others are bad. It is clear this one is bad. I've been treated different than other members who asked for help. They are spoken with respect. This forum just chosen to disrespect me.

I am no where near being a geek. Do geeks like sports? Are geeks sociable with many different types of people? Are geeks popular in school? Are geeks normally considered funny? Do geeks normally wear sports attire? All of these questions have the same answer of NO. Is MegaMan geeky? Is liking DBZ geeky? The answers to these questions are YES. Is playing video games geeky? It depends. Do I play them all day? Nope. Do I play them everyday? Nope. I am no geek. I'm just not a stereotype. I am far from it.

I've received criticism for what I wear. I've been told I look and dress like a geek. I understand that in the picture I provided that my belt was not straight, and would have people to think I'm a geek. However I provided information about what I wear. Dorks do not wear sports attire. Many people do, mostly young teens and young men. Sports attire is not dorky. If that was the case than every sports star dresses like a dork and we know that is not true.

I feel as if my entire situation has not been looked at seriously nor judged fairly. I'm not a geek. I do look at the inside of a woman to learn who she is. I have asked women with smaller breast on dates in the past. I don't ask out a woman on a date until I get to know who she is.

As I have said, I have done many things if not all that has been advised to me. I have done it already. It does not work.

It frustrates me that what I say is ignored and not taken into account. I'm sure all of you are frustrated as well with this going on for days now.

Good bye everyone. I wish the best for all of you.

[nuttychick]

Cya Frankie boy ... Good luck..

[LickMyGamete]

Stop with this victim mentality. What makes more sense:

A. That EVERYONE is out to get you.
B. That you just perceive that everyone is out to get you.

We didn't gang up on you at all. You're the best case I've ever seen of someone who is their own worst enemy. You take any critique we may have as a personal attack and then "demand" we stop and treat you with respect, all the while you call us names and show us tremendous amounts of disrespect.

Personally - you called me a liar and said I was "saying things just to say them." When I posted PROOF of you saying EXACTLY what I was claiming you said, you disregard it and somehow stick to your guns that I am lying about it. You were clearly caught in a lie.

The easiest thing to do is run when things get tough. Life is tough sometimes Franklin, maybe now would be a good time to learn how to deal with it. Running is not dealing with it.

[funinthesun]

Anyone else think that although he claims that he would never be violent with a woman......


He has serious self image issues.
He has an admittedly poor temper.
He has no problem "going off" on a girl when he feels that he is wronged.
His perception of reality is greatly twisted by his fears and insecurities to the point that many are probably self-fulfilling.
He feels that he was or did and will continue to be taunted in an juvenile fashion that he is vulnerable to. ( lots of anger/resentment/hate building up here)
He can't take criticism.
He takes pride in his academics and thinks he's successful.



that all it will take is some girl using him for whatever he ends up doing while hooking up with someone on the side then saying 'haha whatever nerd, like I could ever give a shit about you' for there to be some pretty serious violence?