Lost Hope

[RATED-RKOFRANKLIN]

Hello everyone I am Franklin. I have a problem with trying to find a women to start a relationship with. I have looked everywhere on the internet for articles relating to my issue but I have none. I feel as if there is no solution to my problem.

This is my problem. I am a 19 year old male. I have never had a girlfriend and never been kissed before. Of course I am a virgin. Throughout school every girl(seriously) thinks that I am the ugliest piece of shit on God's green Earth. I have asked over 10 different girls out on dates. All of them said no. 2 of them lied that they liked me but did not. They told me the truth after a good period of time talking to them but I was not dating them. We just talked.

Women has never approached me. They never flirt with me. They never hit on me. They never show interest. Women give me a disgusting look on their faces when someone mention me in a conversation about looks, relationships, dating, etc.

My family, friends, and church family always have told me I am a nice looking guy. However as you known women think differently of me. I believe my family, friends, and church family is just being nice to me. They just don't want to hurt my feelings. Some of my friends say it just takes longer for others. I don't feel that way. As I said I feel as if there is no solution for my problem. Every woman does not want the ugliest piece of shit on God's green Earth.

Well to completely judge this issue you need to know a little bit more about me. As I said I am a 19 year old. I'm currently going to college. My hobbies are video games, NFL, NBA, WWE, DragonBall Z, MegaMan, Brett Favre, RATED-RKO, bowling, shopping, I'm making my own video game, music(rock/pop, I hate ghetto music), hanging out with friends, going out to eat, etc. Physically I am 6'2 weighting about 170 pounds so I am slender. I wear glasses. I am black. My ears do stretch out more horizontally which is different from most people. I was very popular in high school and well known. I was not a jock but a cool guy. Since I am into so many things I can relate to many different people. So I am out going and sociable. However I can be a extremely mean person if you piss me off in the wrong way such as calling me racial slurs, a girl lying that she likes me and tries to play me, disrespecting me, etc. Some of my friends say I am worst than Edge(WWE Superstar). I do have female friends but they are not anything more. I'm not into going to parties. They really don't interest me unless it is someone's birthday or a solider coming back from Iraq.

Here are my standards for women when it comes to dating and relationships. She must pass all of my standards. First She must be slender. I am not attracted to fat women. Second she must have at least a c cup. Small breast turn me off. Third she must be a Christian. I want someone with the same religious beliefs. Fourth she must dress nice. Fifth she must be clean. Sixth we must have good communication with one another.

If I ever lost my virginity(which I know I won't) I want to titty fuck a woman. Thinking about or watching titty fucking is a huge turn on for me. My friends thinks this is weird. They also think that this does not do anything to the woman what so ever.

Since women do want me, I have turn to porn. I join a porn network named Brazzers on the internet and just download porn. I only watch storyline porn with slender women with big tits. I see this as the only choice God and women have given me. I must admit I do enjoy porn. I jack off to porn at least 3 times a day. I have over 200GB worth of it on my external harddrive all from the same network. However if I ever fine anyone(which I won't) I'm more than willing to stop watching porn.

[nuttychick]

Originally Posted by RATED-RKOFRANKLIN

If I ever lost my virginity(which I know I won't) I want to be titty fucked.
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You are a Male?

[RATED-RKOFRANKLIN]

Originally Posted by nuttychick

You are a Male?

Excuse you. The answer to your rude question is in the first post of this thread. Have you not heard of a man wanting to be titty fucked? What is so weird that a man wants his dick between tits?

[tntitans21399]

I'm a little confussed. You want to find a girl, but you want to e titty fucked, are you sure you don't want to titty fuck a girl? If you want to be titty fucked, that means you will need to look for a guy not a girl, and that's a whole another issue.

To be completely honest, some of your hobbies seem nerdy like video games, DragonBall Z, MegaMan, and making your own video game. Those aren't things that a girl will see and think oh yes. Also you said you repel girls with your looks but you were poplar in high school. Usually the poplar kids aren't ugly duckings, so maybe you weren't as poplar as you thought or maybe personality repelled them.

The biggest thing that attracts girls is confidence. If you have a lot of confidence, not cockiness or rudeness, but confidence then you just give off a really good vibe. If you don't have confidence a girl can tell. Getting confidence is hard if you don't have any. I think competing, rather it be sports, video games, board games, etc.., can help build your confidence, well as long as you win some or a lot. Believing in yourself in one thing can carry over to other parts of your life like work, relationships, hobbies, etc...

Just think of how you might feel about yourself. If you down then why would a girl want you. What would make her want to be with you? But if you are up (upbeat, happy, etc...) then a girl might think well he seems pretty happy and fun to be around, so I'll give him a shot.

My next question is how did you ask those 10 girls out? Also it is a numbers game too so them ore you ask the more likely you will find a yes. You can't ask a girl and expect to get a yes every time. But about asking those 10 girls or so. Did you just walk up and ask them to be your girlfriend, or did you ask them to go have lunch/dinner, or something? If you asked them to be your girlfriend then that was to strong and straight forward. You should ask them to lunch sometime. Just something casual and slow at first so you can get to know each other. Also with the 2 girls that said they liked you, they might have liked you in the past and was a trend for them. Just like you might have liked one girl for about a month or two and that was it.

[cjb1981]

1)I have no idea what you look like other than what you've described, but I can tell you right now that your problem is your attitude and confidence level, not your looks.

2)It doesn't matter what your hobbies are. My friends and I are interested is a lot of the same things you are, and and have no problems with the ladies.

3)You're a person with a self proclaimed "mean streak"...that needs to go!

4)Something else you need to understand is that women don't simply walk up to you and start flirting...that's not how it works.

5)Back off the porn and start looking for activities and situations where you can interact with people (women) you don't know.

6) Do you have breast? Because if you don't, then you can not be titty fucked. You can titty fuck a woman, but you yourself can't be TF'ed.

[nuttychick]

Originally Posted by RATED-RKOFRANKLIN

Excuse you. The answer to your rude question is in the first post of this thread. Have you not heard of a man wanting to be titty fucked? What is so weird that a man wants a dick between tits?

lol Rude question? I thought it was a quite valid question


lol You either have huge man titties or
You have trouble understanding what it means ..


So you want to "Tit Fuck" a Woman ?

[RATED-RKOFRANKLIN]

I'm sorry. I should have worded it better. Yet I still said what my sex is in the first post.

Originally Posted by tntitans21399

I'm a little confussed. You want to find a girl, but you want to e titty fucked, are you sure you don't want to titty fuck a girl? If you want to be titty fucked, that means you will need to look for a guy not a girl, and that's a whole another issue.

To be completely honest, some of your hobbies seem nerdy like video games, DragonBall Z, MegaMan, and making your own video game. Those aren't things that a girl will see and think oh yes. Also you said you repel girls with your looks but you were poplar in high school. Usually the poplar kids aren't ugly duckings, so maybe you weren't as poplar as you thought or maybe personality repelled them.

The biggest thing that attracts girls is confidence. If you have a lot of confidence, not cockiness or rudeness, but confidence then you just give off a really good vibe. If you don't have confidence a girl can tell. Getting confidence is hard if you don't have any. I think competing, rather it be sports, video games, board games, etc.., can help build your confidence, well as long as you win some or a lot. Believing in yourself in one thing can carry over to other parts of your life like work, relationships, hobbies, etc...

Just think of how you might feel about yourself. If you down then why would a girl want you. What would make her want to be with you? But if you are up (upbeat, happy, etc...) then a girl might think well he seems pretty happy and fun to be around, so I'll give him a shot.

My next question is how did you ask those 10 girls out? Also it is a numbers game too so them ore you ask the more likely you will find a yes. You can't ask a girl and expect to get a yes every time. But about asking those 10 girls or so. Did you just walk up and ask them to be your girlfriend, or did you ask them to go have lunch/dinner, or something? If you asked them to be your girlfriend then that was to strong and straight forward. You should ask them to lunch sometime. Just something casual and slow at first so you can get to know each other. Also with the 2 girls that said they liked you, they might have liked you in the past and was a trend for them. Just like you might have liked one girl for about a month or two and that was it.

I was popular in school. Many people knew me and talked about me often. I was the RATED-R-SUPERSTAR of my school. I was not the most popular guy. There were many people I did not know who knew me. I was basically the cool guy, mean guy(if you piss me off. I never go off on someone who does not disrespect me), funny, very socialable with many different types of people, etc.

I asked girls would they like to go out with me. I tell them that I'm interested in them. They have always said no.

I love playing and competing with sports, video games, and other games. There was a point I had confidence for many years. I felt that someone would accept me. I knew I was not the best looking guy but I tried. I walked up and spoken to girls. Some I don't try to flirt with. Sometimes it's just me saying "How are you? and ""Hi", yet I still get a negative reaction from that from women. They would give me a disgusting look on their faces.

[EvilEvilKitten]

You want a slender woman with a C cup pair of breasts - oookay. Perhaps female anatomy has passed you by but you should realise that she doesn't usually get big breasts unless she is big elsewhere as well. You might find the odd girl out but really - don't expect it. Strike 1.

People found you cool BUT the women didn't flock to you and you don't like parties. Translated = no fun. Strike 2.

The whole macho/respect me attitude - chip on your shoulder. Strike 3.

You're in college now. Look around and see those women who are getting the grades? Those are the ones to go after. SLOWLY. Yeah they may not be beauties but you know - they tend to be better persons.

Women like confidence without arrogance. They like men who are comfortable in their own skins. They really do not give a damn about your ears, etc. It is the person not the packaging that matters. Women also like to have fun. I suggest you learn how to dance and then go to parties and dance with as many women as you can talk into it. Do not give up. Please note, I said women not girls.

You have a lot of growing up left to do but it will come.

[funinthesun]

It's only fair to point out that the majority of the girls that he is likely to meet at that age are just that and not women - so be prepared to spend a good amount of time looking. Also, since you are in college now, it would probably help to improve your English.

As for the mean streak - that has to go. There is a big difference between protecting yourself or others and making sure that others know that they've made a mistake and simply trying to get revenge to make yourself feel better. This is very, very important, because if you are ever truly successful at something, then so many of the people you meet will be trying to use/abuse/cheat you to get what you have that staying your current course would mean it consumes all of your time and energy.

[wet_suit_one]

Meh,

Relationships are overrated.

Depending on the laws in your jurisdiction, see an escort. Tell her to teach you a bit about women.

Simple, straighforward, easy, and depending on the laws in your jurisdiction (do know this in advance, no need for a criminal record of course) legal.

Myself, I waited until I was in my 30's to start dating. Can't say I regret it.

Don't think that the traditional way of proceeding is the only way to do things. There are other routes to happiness.

Best of luck to you lad.