Girlfriend wants to go down but can't bring herself to try

[EvilEvilKitten]

I already answered that one, Doc. See below.

[misunderstood69]

sorry for jumping into the conversation so late but do you honestly love this girl?? how long do you see yourself with her? My opinion is that u need to trust her. I had the same problem i wanted to please my man so bad but i couldnt bring myself to do it but i knew one day somehow it would happen. Another problem is that she may feel like thats all you want from her or if she doesn't do it you will leave her to go get it somewhere else. no matter how many times you tell her that isn't the case they still feel that way. show her that you care.

[thokrit]

I love her to death and I want to spend my life with her. She is the Ying to my Yang and the Wu to my Tang.

I feel as if I can't talk to her about it really because of the fact I will feel as if we talk about it then I would come off as a person who has just that one thing on their mind.

I think you could be right that she feels as if I will just leave her but I am in love with her and I just don't know how to express it to make her believe in me or our relationship.

It is hard because I feel scared because I am fearful of being with her for a very long time and just pushing my sexual needs aside hurts sometimes.

[sexierNsexierEveryDay]

Your 18 right? so how can you say you want to spend your life with her? especially since she doesn't satisfy your sexual needs? If you love her so much then why are you afraid to be with her for so long? If pushing your sexual needs aside hurts so much then get rid of her. but i don't get why your scared?