Hitting on women in grocery stores.

[cjb1981]

Today while grocery shopping I saw the most beautiful woman I honestly think I've ever seen in my life. There was a guy and a couple of kids around her, who I didn't realize until they started walking different directions weren't attached to her. I'm a decent looking, somewhat funny dude who's got his shit together. I've got plenty of experience talking to women, getting women, being in relationships, etc... However, all of those have come from situations where it was expected to introduce myself, ask her name, and start up some random conversation (school, work, a bar, a party). In my 27 years on this earth, I have yet to figure out a non-sleazy way to approach an attractive woman in a setting such as a store without it seeming...odd.

-My question to the guys is: How the hell do you just walk up to some hot random chick in Wal*Mart and make something happen?

-And ladies: If you're in the produce isle and some random guy comes up to you and starts trying to work some magic, what's your response?

[wet_suit_one]

Read a book called "The Game."

It deals with this situation.

N'Joy...

[cjb1981]

Thanks, I'll check it out.

[dlb]

Originally Posted by cjb1981

I'm a decent looking, somewhat funny dude who's got his shit together. I've got plenty of experience talking to women, getting women, being in relationships, etc...

-My question to the guys is: How the hell do you just walk up to some hot random chick in Wal*Mart and make something happen?

-And ladies: If you're in the produce isle and some random guy comes up to you and starts trying to work some magic, what's your response?

Meeting women at the store is just like meeting them anywhere else. Just strike up a conversation. Talk about the price of the produce or the quality...

[EvilEvilKitten]

My response would depend upon how much time I had available and how CREEPY he is. You can be as handsome as anything but if I get even the slightest tinge of slime - I am gone.

You have to undersstand - she may be there and in a hurry because she has 16745 things to do and this is number 3 on her list. In that case - move along, buddy. She has no time for you or interest in you. (Btw this is usually me.)

If she's dawdling along, just there to kill some time - sure, go ahead. Say hello.

Just remember - do not be creepy about it.

[wet_suit_one]

Ah yes, the creep factor. The great bane of men everywhere. If you're creepy (whatever that is...) you're done. Sucks to be us.

What's the great bane of the female of our species? I am curios...

[EvilEvilKitten]

Being either plain as a post or ugly as sin. Men being visually-oriented creatures, you understand.
The "I wouldn't F her with your dick" factor.

[wet_suit_one]

Yes, there is that. I suppose we all have our crosses to bear... It's tough being human isn't it?

[EvilEvilKitten]

LOL No, I think it is FUN!!

[dlb]

Considering the other options, I am pretty darned happy being human.