BF and good good friend

[awesome01]

My boyfriend of a year he's really good to me,although he does nothing for me sexaually,he has great oral. My friend we have great sex we do everything when i say everything I mean everything. You name it we done.
Were just alike.Oh my god it's so great I can toot is horn .My BF he 's good for me,he balances me.What do I do.

[nuttychick]

ummmm what is the question?

[LickMyGamete]

Originally Posted by awesome01

What do I do.

Use protection every time or google image "herpes sores" and get use to seeing that..

Out of curiosity - how old are you?

[EvilEvilKitten]

What's the problem? You have two guys - so have two guys. Not a big deal.

[thokrit]

You obviously have some sort of dilemma on your hands if you decided to post a topic. But that dilemma is your own to decide but if you care (or cared) anything for your boyfriend you would tell him about what happened or is happening.

[EvilEvilKitten]

You people have got to learn to share.
Each man does his best for her - now if only she could combine the two...
But she can't..so, she has two men.
Really, it isn't a big deal.

[LCAMILO86]

um....okay. if you get along with your friend sexually better than your BF, then u have 2 decide who u REALLY want to be with.....ur man who treats u right, and doesn't please u sexually, or ur friend who pleases u sexually, and doesn't maybe treat u right.......it depends who u really want 2 be with, and who u see urself being with in the long run.......

[EvilEvilKitten]

Tsk - stop marrying her off.

[thokrit]

Originally Posted by EvilEvilKitten

Tsk - stop marrying her off.

Women like you are the reason why the atomic bomb exists.

I highly do not recommend infidelity because too many people get hurt and it will drive you insane after awhile and I think it already is driving you mad.

[EvilEvilKitten]

Sweety - she DATING, she's not being at all infidelitous since she did NOT swear any VOWS to anyone at any time. She has two male friends - that's all. Which is my circle of friends means she's not trying hard enough.

Insecure men who do not want to have to compete with other men for a woman's attention always seem to make the same claim - "she's foul because she's playing the field" = "she's disloyal". Stop. Itis NOt that she's anything at all -rather it is his insecurity and weakness that is the real problem.

But since he cannot think badly about himself or get up the energy to change himself - he will blame her instead. It is sooo much easier especially if he can convince her that she's being bad and mean to him or that she's insane or a rank skanky slut if she dates more than one man at a time.

That feeble male pride thing.

There is no real reason why she has to choose one or the other.

Hitler is the reason why the atom bomb exists.