what makes a woman change?

[d-boy]

Delete this

[Brandye]

This phenomenon is referred to as "growing up." Both men and women have tendencies to do it.

[d-boy]

Guess that

[dancingdoc2]

Originally Posted by d-boy

I've known my girl since she was 13. Now she's 23. But as a young teen she had a bad reputation as lots of sexual partners. After 18 she calmed down and she now has 2 kids. We been together a year now. How can a girl change her ways from f****** hella guys to acting like a lady.

The process of maturing and transmuting from child to adult is a process that takes a decade. While we may be able to make babies and enjoy orgasms right after puberty, our bodies are not really prepared for child birth nor do we fully develop physically until long after puberty. The frontal lobe of the brain is the last part of us to develop. This is the part that permits us to see around corners and to understand the consequences of our actions. In between puberty and this stage, much can happen and much of what does is mental and emotional development.

That she was a wild teen may have to do with rebelliousness against parental authority, perhaps wanting her independence too soon, wanting someone to pay attention to her (sex being the vehicle)--only she can tell you.

The neighbor girl I grew up and played with entered the teen years by dyeing her hair, using way too much makeup, dressing outrageously, stuffing her bra with tissue, etc. Sound familiar? Later, she went to work for the same airline her brother was a pilot for and became a flight attendant.

Also what do I click on to respond to a comment??

What is it about guys that we will drive around for "hours" before looking at a road map, or, stopping somewhere and asking someone for directions?

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[d-boy]

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[dancingdoc2]

Yes, the genders are different. Guys will say and do most anything in order to get an orgasm that is more intense than what can be had at home alone. Loving or caring about the partner in all this is secondary.

Girls want acknowledgement and romance and often a sense of belonging prior to the sex. How these factors come together helps define a relationship.

[d-boy]

Guess it be wrong to hold any of pastagainst her

[EvilEvilKitten]

She should NOT be ashamed of her past. She was being generous and fun-loving and there's nothing wrong with that.

Her past is none of your business.

You, d-day, need to think "how would I like it if..." then you could answer your own questions.

[EvilEvilKitten]

The trouble with using words like "romance" is that it means different things to different people.

A girl wants to feel that SHE matters. That SHE is important to you. Because her safety lies in your character. A bad date for you is no sex. A bad date for her is she's lying dead in a ditch somewhere.

Get a clue, puppies!

[LiL_TrUbLe]

I agree she should NOT be ashamed of her past.

I say that just because some one is “fucking around” (like most call it) does not mean she can’t act like a lady.

It is different for a girl than a guy if a girl has been with 3 or 4 or more guys she gets a bad reputation but if it’s a guy that has been with more they don’t think much of it. With that said.

Her past is her past and if she did what she did hey she did it get over it she is with you now and if you are happy with her why bring up the past.

It would be stupid to hold any of her past against her what would be the point? you mentioned you had a lot of sex cause you liked it, their for how would you like it if she held that against you?