Ladies - what makes your knees quake?

[EvilEvilKitten]

I mean really. What other creature can sit there for hours happily gazing out at the world around them and when you ask them what they're thinking - they answer, with perfect honesty, "Nothing".

[daubsnu1]

EEK: Well, then I guess I must be unlike the majority of the fellows here on earth.

For me it ain't about the ~1-2% of the time you are intimate...it's the 98% that you are spending time together, talking, walking, having fun, going to ball games, washing dishes, etc.

I've often heard it said that women give the physical to get the emotional connection. Men give the emotional connection to women to get to the physical part. Hasty generalization yes, but in most cases true.

For me the emotional connection makes a woman beautiful in my eyes. I've met many beauties that look good on the outside...but the second they open their mouths and start spewing bitchiness, crabbiness, self-centered, high-maintenance, etc., they drop down on my list right between death and gonorrhea. Ick.

[EvilEvilKitten]

I do hate to tell your daub - but you're not all that unique and being intimate is more than just enjoying sex - being intimate includes all of the other things you mentioned and more besides.

But in the final analysis ALL ALL of us ever wants is for someone we give a damn about to give a damn about us

[GaryRed]

Originally Posted by EvilEvilKitten

I do hate to tell your daub - but you're not all that unique and being intimate is more than just enjoying sex - being intimate includes all of the other things you mentioned and more besides.

But in the final analysis ALL ALL of us ever wants is for someone we give a damn about to give a damn about us

I'm one of those neanderthal types, then. I'd much rather be out with the lads than spend time with my girlfriend - I just love sex with women.

[sexylips101]

okay EEK i totally agree with you that she doesnt automatically have to be frigid. most likely ur right and she has just spent too much time with jerks. so my advice would be exactly like urs, make her wanna come to you.
just one problem... what if she is frigid? i mean there is a tiny chance that she might be. she wouldnt be the first. then my advice would still be the same as i think she'd have to learn to trust him, emotionally and physically so he'd have to have some serious patience!

[EvilEvilKitten]

GaryRed - some guys swing that way - not that there's anything wrong with that. *EG*

[AussieBloke]

Gary,

Im not woman, but my track record says I know what women want

The girl you talk about, every man and his dog has probably spoken to her trying to pick her up, trying to woo her. So, why not talk to her for the sake of it? Talk to her.. and leave out the sexual innunedo for the time being... dont be a little bitch and show you have no balls though Gary, because thatll turn her off to. Talk to her, engage with her.. but dont chase her.

Shes sick of blokes like that, that end the convesation with "so.... can i have your number?".. probably frustrated with guys because of it. So why dont you talk to her and show her your funny and charming and then head off without putting the hard word on her.

Wash and repeat until done lol.

[EvilEvilKitten]

Yes, Aussie, I know how that is supposed to work.

Guys - while being all cool and cocky - beware of false steps and hidden traps. There are women who will encourage you ever onward, up to, and over the cliff. (evil grin)

Choose the women carefully.

[RightNow]

For me it's the way my boyfriend kisses me that lets me know i'm the only one he wants and he wants me NOW! It's just sooo passionate and i can tell he's really into it.

I waited 6 weeks of us being together before we even went past kissing, sex came very quickly after that. For the first 6 weeks it was all about spending time with each other, learning more about each other and me building up the trust in him. He's older than me so i automatically thought he would want more straight away. The fact he didn't and he waited until he knew i was ready only made me want him more. I've been with the blokes who have wanted everything straight away and let you know that and TBH... it couldn't be more of a turn off. So i guess what im saying is take time to get to know her, let her know you are interested in her and not just the sex, it will work.

Also whe he sneaks up behind me, puts his arms round me and gently kisses my neck a couple of times... Oooooh love that!