I'm Confused

[King Rick]

So I've been asking my friends for help, but none of them were very much help. So I figured why not ask here. I've been friends with this girl for 3 1/2 years, and we tried dating once, but we both agreed that our schooling was more important. Now we work together and I've heard from people that she considers me as one of her close friends, but when we're alone she acts differently. She'll come up behind me and wrap her arms around my waist, or she'll sit on my lap, or tease kissing me. I don't know if I should ask her out again, or just try and deal with it.

[LickMyGamete]

Sounds like you should ask her out..

[Dbondjuk]

Originally Posted by King Rick

So I've been asking my friends for help, but none of them were very much help. So I figured why not ask here. I've been friends with this girl for 3 1/2 years, and we tried dating once, but we both agreed that our schooling was more important. Now we work together and I've heard from people that she considers me as one of her close friends, but when we're alone she acts differently. She'll come up behind me and wrap her arms around my waist, or she'll sit on my lap, or tease kissing me. I don't know if I should ask her out again, or just try and deal with it.

Lol, are you sure you aren't dating already? Maybe she wants FWB? I'd ask her out again, but dating at work is meh... Not advised for obvious reasons and interferences in the workplace. Just ask her out, I would. F work.

[King Rick]

Thanks for the advice guys, I'm supposed to be seeing her tomorrow, so I shall let you know what happens.

[dlb]

You work together?

Either she is coming on to you or it is sexual harassment in the workplace. If you feel attracted to her and she is behaving this way you should ask her out.

[King Rick]

Well I can tell you right now that it is definately not sexual harassment. I'm not going to say that I'm in love with her, because well......I'm not. But I guess I shall find out later if she wants to be more than just friends.

[dancingdoc2]

Nothing ventured, nothing gained.

By asking her out you will be a participant in the dating game. Dating her may lead to something, it may not. If it does not, then it is on to round two.

[ghostrider1982]

Originally Posted by King Rick

So I've been asking my friends for help, but none of them were very much help. So I figured why not ask here. I've been friends with this girl for 3 1/2 years, and we tried dating once, but we both agreed that our schooling was more important. Now we work together and I've heard from people that she considers me as one of her close friends, but when we're alone she acts differently. She'll come up behind me and wrap her arms around my waist, or she'll sit on my lap, or tease kissing me. I don't know if I should ask her out again, or just try and deal with it.

Defenently ask her out, the most she can do is say no. And if it dont work out it doesnt mean that its not ment to be. It just means that its not ment to be right now. And dont worry about the friend zone, it could work out for you in the long run.

[Joe6565]

Originally Posted by King Rick

Well I can tell you right now that it is definately not sexual harassment. I'm not going to say that I'm in love with her, because well......I'm not. But I guess I shall find out later if she wants to be more than just friends.

If you are not in love, do you think of her as a "friend with benefits"? That will be your next question

[EvilEvilKitten]

Apparently some men need a 'guilt-edged invitation' .

Look, I know guys don't see hints but this girl has been using a 2x4 upside your head and you're still hesitating?!?!!?!

Guys if a girl sits on your lap and kisses you - please - it is GAME ON.