About one lad !

iloveanimals · #1 (**permalink**) 03-09-2009, 03:51 PM

im kinda sad
i like this guy - slept with him number of tyms now n stayed over at his house
he dnt want a relationship so am i jus a bit on the side or wat ? i dnt evn wanna ask if hes got utha girls eitha bt i think he has - y wud he want me thn if he has !! ?

wat can i du in this situation cuh im not going to stop seeing him unles hes gt a gf or he dnt wnna c me anymre cus i like him - help plz advice needed ?

dancingdoc2 · #2 (**permalink**) 03-09-2009, 06:20 PM

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Originally Posted by iloveanimals

im kinda sad
i like this guy - slept with him number of tyms now n stayed over at his house
he dnt want a relationship so am i jus a bit on the side or wat ? i dnt evn wanna ask if hes got utha girls eitha bt i think he has - y wud he want me thn if he has !! ?

Dear Desperate,
PLEASE OH PLEASE write your messages using the Queen's English including proper punctuation and capitalization. This is not the place for text messaging shorthand.

Guys like conquests. This person does not want a relationship (apparently much beyond a one night stand or two or three or.....), however, he seems to like different bed partners during the week. Do not be surprised if you are one of many.

Are you using protection? More to the point, is he? You certainly do not want to take a chance on contracting a social disease. Keep in mind that you not only sleep with the guy, you also sleep with everyone he has slept with and they have slept with and so on and on--if he is not using protection.

wat can i du in this situation cuh im not going to stop seeing him unles hes gt a gf or he dnt wnna c me anymre cus i like him - help plz advice needed ?

If you are not going to stop seeing him and not going to ask or otherwise learn if he has others on the side which you already suspect is true and he wants to continue to see you because he enjoys conquests and getting the milk free without buying the proverbial "cow", what advice can we possibly give you that would be meaningful?

EvilEvilKitten · #3 (**permalink**) 03-09-2009, 06:38 PM

Listen up! The equivalent of "why buy the cow when the milk is free" is:

WHY BUY THE PIG WHEN ALL YOU WANT IS A LITTLE SAUSAGE?

Sweetheart - enjoy the man for as long as YOU are willing to put up with whatever game he's running - which, of course, you will IGNORE. When he's out of your sight, he should also be out of your mind. If all he wants is to be YOUR F%^&Buddy, then fine - as long as he continues to sexually please you, he may remain on your list of available booty calls. It is't that you are being used - it is that HE'S YOUR TOY.

End of story.

Dbondjuk · #4 (**permalink**) 03-09-2009, 06:53 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by iloveanimals

im kinda sad
i like this guy - slept with him number of tyms now n stayed over at his house
he dnt want a relationship so am i jus a bit on the side or wat ? i dnt evn wanna ask if hes got utha girls eitha bt i think he has - y wud he want me thn if he has !! ?

wat can i du in this situation cuh im not going to stop seeing him unles hes gt a gf or he dnt wnna c me anymre cus i like him - help plz advice needed ?

Lol, based on your ability to read and write, I would probably just sleep with you too when I wanted to get laid.

Sekcboi85 · #5 (**permalink**) 03-09-2009, 06:57 PM

I have to agree with EEK here. Why get all worried about someone when they obviously don't care about you. In my opinion, it is pretty hard to establish a relationship with someone after you have already become Fuck buddies. If you can accept your relationship for what it is then keep on doing it. If you can't then you should probably stop talking to him and move on.

And like Doc said, why come asking for advice when you admit you won't listen unless you get the advice you want to hear. And please, USE ENGLISH!!

Dbondjuk · #6 (**permalink**) 03-09-2009, 07:00 PM

I guess I'll be the only dick in this thread :S. Someone had to say it >_<

iloveanimals · #7 (**permalink**) 03-10-2009, 07:12 AM

oh sorry about my english and text speaking i do apologise
no im willing to listen to what you guys have put and find it all very useful thanks alot !
oh i wil definately stop thinking about him when hes not around me as i think thats what the problem was then, cause i like him obviously.
i will ask him next time i see him if hes got other girls on the go.
i must say ive never heard of the pig and cow business before and found it quite funny as to how you compared us to them lol

EvilEvilKitten · #8 (**permalink**) 03-10-2009, 07:19 AM

No don't ask him anything. Simply put it is none of your business anyway besides which - as long as you get yours from him - you don't care if he does - so why bother asking? Just use condoms and BCPs and relax.

iloveanimals · #9 (**permalink**) 03-10-2009, 02:28 PM

ok i wont ask him anything lol
i wil just see when he asks me to come round again and we always wear condoms cause he dont want kids at this moment
get waht from him ?
what is BCP's may i ask ?

Brandye · #10 (**permalink**) 03-10-2009, 05:10 PM

Animal,

Another lapse. Any 19 yo sexually active woman knows what BCP are. I posted a conversation at your name. Read it and stop the drivel on the forums.

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