Whats it mean?

[CegMister]

ive know this girl for a while were pretty good friends have the same odd interests and stuff anyway I talk to her when ever I can but the thing i have a question about is. I always start conversation with her no matter what it is (Text,Aim,talking).

The thing Im wondering is I always start the convs but when I do we like talk for hours. Some things she does when we talk is laughing,smiling,im good at making her laugh anyway I was wondering do you think think this girl is just being nice when I talk to her and doesn't want to talk since I always start conversations this part allows makes me sort of insecure that I'm bothering her which like drives me crazy, do you think I might have a chance at dating or do you think she just wants to be friends, any extra info you need or questions I'm fine with answering. Last thing is I dont mind you telling me the truth I'm a realistic guy.

[mattc]

It could mean lots of things, some of my best friends are women. We talk all the time, for hours some times. They've never been interested in me as anything but a friend. Could mean she's in to you and wishes you'd make a move.

If she's talking to you for hours on end you're not bothering her so you can stop worrying that you're bothering her. Ask her out, what's the worst that happens?

[dancingdoc2]

Girls/women do not want to waste time needlessly. If she is not interested in spending time talking or rather listening to you go on and on, she would be giving you a reason why she has to go. This being the case, she is spending time with you because she enjoys your company.

> do you think I might have a chance at dating or do you think she just wants to be friends,

Yes and yes.

You won't know if she wants to date unless you ask her out. What is stopping you. Put forth the question next time you talk to her and tell her what you would like to do and when, then offer an alternative day or time just in case she has your original schedule booked. As an example: I would like to take you to dinner and a movie to see..... on Saturday. It starts at x and again at Y. If you can make the matinee we can have dinner later or switch the time if you are busy earlier.

Key to this is to learn what she likes, first, be it movies, hobbies, interests. Do something you know she would like. If she doesn't give out clues, ask one of her friends.

An important lesson for guys to learn is that by nature women are chatty creatures. Ask a leading question and stand back for you are likely to gain an earful. Next time, instead of monopolizing the conversation, interject questions for her to answer. to a recent reply about what questions to ask as examples. Make up your own specifically for her.

I believe you can expect that she wants to be friends. That's a given after all the time she has spent listening to you. Now, ask the girl out and ask questions designed to get her to talk to you so you do not have to talk so much and at the same time learn more about her.

[Rouge]

I doubt that it's the case. I normally refuse to start a conversation as I don't want to be a bother (sad, but true). If the guy starts a conversation, I know that HE wants to speak to ME.