2 Promblems..

[Aaron1219]

Not only do i have a promblem findin a gf...i think i have a very very very low self asteem to my penis size....my penis is 3 1/2 inches small wehn it is soft...but wehn i catch a erection it turns out to be 8 inches....i feel like if i was to ever get in the situation of sex the girl would be most definetly dispointed...i feel like im not a man.......so ima ask a question i see asked around but i wanted to make my own...does size really matter...

please help a.s.a.p...i have been really depressed cuhz of my size...ever since i noticed it wasnt growing...i feel....usless...

[cjb1981]

You're an average guy with an average penis, nothing to be concerned about. Don't ask about penis size and if it matters or not, you'll get nothing but hate from around here. Especially when there are dozens of threads about it already. With regards to the girlfriend thing, talk to women at school, work, or join some online dating site. Good luck.

[Aaron1219]

but i have a friend a best friend and we r not gay..but we brought up a no homo convo...like if he thinks he has a big dick or not...i told him my situation and he said his was the same thing...so is my size normall??...i feel embaressed..

[dancingdoc2]

I hope you enjoy participating.

PLEASE, PLEASE, take a few minutes and read the FAQs, Posting Guidelines section, and the Index, all found at the top of the main screen. In addition to the many helpful articles linked in the Index, there is a very useful search engine. You can usually find answers to common concerns before finding a need to post.

Size is a very common concern, so much so we are tired of answering it when the subject has been talked about over and over. Please read the posts on this in the Posting Guidelines. To the point, please read the first article listed in the Index.

You have nothing to be concerned about, nothing to worry about. I believe what is really on your mind is whether you can be a great lover when the time comes. Believe me, there is more to becoming a great lover than the size of a penis; therefore, please read many of the other articles listed in the Index. Many talk about how to make out, how to please each other, and, these include the physical as well as the emotional aspects involved. Better me thinks to learn about these.

As for how small your penis is, it can often become shorter/smaller, particularly when you go swimming or take a cold shower. So, when you find it has shriveled to a half inch--do not panic at this extreme, either.

[Aaron1219]

lol kk...if anything wehn i am in a pool or in shower i get a hard lol idk the cold and warm water turns me on...i usually have a hard on but usually am not soft...for some reason....its weird like i dont walk around wit my penis pokin ot my pants but there is times were my penis is bout 5 inches for hourse and hours hours...but times it jus shrinks out of no weree....is there a reaosn for that...and i have to i love this website...i was lookin threw this website and i have learned sooooo much from how to finger a womne...wehn the right time to kiss is,wehn to hold hands on a date wehn to kno wehn its okay,or even to do women like shaved men or not..this website is the best website for teen sex ed. and ofcourse for the older also..i will ahosrly adivse this website to many friends at skewl....only wish there was a section were i can find a girl that is as interested in sex as me LOL! :P

[Brandye]

PLEASE, PLEASE use some language that resembles standard English.

[dancingdoc2]

Girls are not interested in sex.
Girls are interested in companionship, talking, emotional support, love, romance, all before sex.

Girls are interested in sex for sex sake, the same as guys, although, you will do better finding a girl if you pay attention to and caress her emotional and psychological desires.

I am glad you have been reading around and finding a lot of valuable information. Please continue because you have much more to learn and more importantly--understand. Some of this will come from articles like those in the Index, some will come with additional maturity.

[Aaron1219]

Look,Were I am from the education we get here isnt as advanced as other countires as yours.Here in miami florida our education is poor and the teachers teaching techniqes are poor also.the way i am typeing is fast and am not spell checking my self.didnt know it matters how i spell and write for someone to helpe me about my promblems thanks...next person help?

[Aaron1219]

and thank you dancing doc for all of your help instead of bashing my english like someone around here...i have found this website very helpful.now i kno thats wat a girl wants.

companionship, talking, emotional support, love, romance

but the girls werre i livee..hahah...rnt really like that.there are the girls like that but does are the ones who are stuck up and snoty..i would love a girl to do those samee things with me.i want someone to keep me company when i am alone,want someone to talk to me when i am down,romance and everything above....for example i was talking to this girl and i treated her like a princess...like every girl deserves to be treated...but at the end she told me she loved me and all this but she eneded up going back wit her ex.but the way she was wit me i loved it...she talked to me mad me happy..wehn i went over we had a romantic time...didnt have sex but we had i guess oral?...but my penis size is something that scares me alot.i do not want to be a 23 year old wit a penis of the size of 4 inches....

[Sekcboi85]

So, you are worried that your 8 inch penis is gonna get girls to laugh at you? If you listen to Doc and read the FAQ's of this forum then you would realize that the average for a male penis is close to 6 inches.