Feeling under pressure

[MIGHTY BOOSH]

I normally just go with the flow but sometimes I feel like I'm supposed to have a girlfreind by now. It's not just because V-days tomorrow, it often gets me down.

And making things worse there's 2 girls i like and i'm not sure where to go

A few months ago I started to like a girl in my class and there were signs she liked that i got from this site
She jerks her leg in my direction when sitting down with legs crossed (alot)
She faces me with her hips/legs towards you while sitting
and she's done some some more of the other signs in the past

but there's another girl, we've hung out and we've had a laugh I know we like each other as freinds but I'm not sure if there could be anything else. Plus my mate has a GF but he's shown interest in girl number 2 and i'm not sure if he'd like me going out with her.

The first girl can be really nice but she's the "cheerleader" of the class (sorta speek) and since I like her she can say or do something that can make me feel bad where as the other has never made me feel bad and I doubt she could, but then unlike the other girl she doesn't act superior

I'm just unsure and it feels like I should do something but I'm not even sure if a girl from my class is the best option but then I don't know any other girls. I'm just kind of lost

[Brandye]

With a by-line like that on your posts, you will always feel under pressure. Is that common in the midlands?

[MIGHTY BOOSH]

Originally Posted by Brandye

With a by-line like that on your posts, you will always feel under pressure. Is that common in the midlands?

What my sig? I got that a TV show

[dancingdoc2]

Originally Posted by MIGHTY BOOSH

I normally just go with the flow but sometimes I feel like I'm supposed to have a girlfreind by now. It's not just because V-days tomorrow, it often gets me down.

Let me ask the obvious question: what are you doing to acquire a girlfriend?

And making things worse there's 2 girls i like and i'm not sure where to go

Walk up and ask one or both out on a date.

A few months ago I started to like a girl in my class and there were signs she liked that i got from this site
She jerks her leg in my direction when sitting down with legs crossed (alot)
She faces me with her hips/legs towards you while sitting
and she's done some some more of the other signs in the past

What are you saying, that she is acting provocatively? That her actions are not ladylike? That she may be acting suggestively to show interest in you?

If you are uncomfortable with her actions, then do not ask her out.

but there's another girl, we've hung out and we've had a laugh I know we like each other as freinds but I'm not sure if there could be anything else. Plus my mate has a GF but he's shown interest in girl number 2 and i'm not sure if he'd like me going out with her.

Heck! five guys could express an interest in her. Dating is all about learning what humanity has to offer us. Dating should be a non-exlusive activity until ready to settle down and get married. There is no reason why you cannot date her and perhaps others all at the same time. So can your friend. Unless or until the girl decides to devote her attention toward one individual, she is fair game.

The first girl can be really nice but she's the "cheerleader" of the class (sorta speek) and since I like her she can say or do something that can make me feel bad

Asked and answered, above. If she or her actions make you uncomfortable or otherwise seem offensive to you, skip her and move on.

where as the other has never made me feel bad and I doubt she could, but then unlike the other girl she doesn't act superior

I'm just unsure and it feels like I should do something but I'm not even sure if a girl from my class is the best option but then I don't know any other girls. I'm just kind of lost

Asked and answered, above. You won't make any forward progress unless you place one foot in front of the other. In this case, walking up to her, chatting, and then asking her out.

You will not know if any girl is the "best option" until you ask, go on one or two dates, evaluate, and either have a third, or, end it there--moving on to the next person. This is why dating exists. This is the purpose for dating. Dating does not begin and end with the first warm body expressing an interest in us. Dating is to meet lots of people, and learn if one or more might be a possible match. In addition, the purpose of dating is to learn about the different characters, likes, dislikes, quirks, morals, values, goals, etc., that people have. Lastly, dating is about having fun, too. The more people you date the more exposure you have to having fun and doing different things.

You can wonder about "what if" until the cows come home. Only when you take the first step and talk to her and then ask her on a date will you have any answers. If she would like to go on a date with you she will accept. If not--well, turndowns are a part of the dating process, also. Just keep asking girls.

There are a couple of articles listed in the Index at the top of the main screen that discuss dating. Please read them.

[dancingdoc2]

Originally Posted by MIGHTY BOOSH

What my sig? I got that a TV show

Not everything you read, see, or, hear, is worth repeating. Although you may think these words to be cute, this statement is rather crude and crass. You may want to consider if the message puts people off or not. If so, then how do you come across to others.

[EvilEvilKitten]

Date them BOTH and then decide - jeez! That was EASY!

Any more questions?

[MIGHTY BOOSH]

Originally Posted by dancingdoc2

Not everything you read, see, or, hear, is worth repeating. Although you may think these words to be cute, this statement is rather crude and crass. You may want to consider if the message puts people off or not. If so, then how do you come across to others.

Well if it's up setting ppl don't worry I've changed it (my new sigs the title of a show my performing arts class performed) crude and crass... really depends on the context in the show it was rather brilliant and I just thought if a Jekyll fan saw it they'd appreciate it.

[MIGHTY BOOSH]

Originally Posted by dancingdoc2

What are you saying, that she is acting provocatively? That her actions are not ladylike? That she may be acting suggestively to show interest in you?

If you are uncomfortable with her actions, then do not ask her out.

I was just saying that I looked at this site's page on signs if she likes you and she did several of them. I'm not uncomfortable with it I like the thought of her liking me but she sends mixed signals

Originally Posted by dancingdoc2

Asked and answered, above. If she or her actions make you uncomfortable or otherwise seem offensive to you, skip her and move on.

Well, I like her, I think about her more than the other girl hell I think about her alot thing is she's... well a bitch. She can be nice but like last Thurday when she tagged along with me and mate to subway and she spent the whole way there complaining about how she had to hang out with us 2 "wierdo's" and acted like she was better than us. But for some reason I still like her.
Maybe she's being a bitch cause she likes me and is pissed that I'm too stupid to ask her out, maybe I'm just wishing that
all I know is that she's a bitch but I like her anyway

[EvilEvilKitten]

If the girl's sending mixed signals - you wait until she makes up her mind. You can even tell her so when she's being particularly silly.