I dont understand it...

[barrel_gurl31]

So this might be long but I need some help.....

Well one night (last Sat. the 31st) I went out with my cousin Shell and her boyfriend Rich. Rich brought his friend Alex with him. We were all drinking. We ended up going back to Alex's place and startin' a bone fire and drinkin' more. Me and Alex didn't talk much just once in a while. But me and Rich were dancing then i was dancing with my cousin. We were all just having a great time. Around 5am Rich and Shell decided to go to bed. The fire was going out so me and Alex went in and continued to drink and watch tv. We started talkin' about like everything. Then I just kissed him....one thing lead to another (we were drunk) and we had sex. And didn't end up going to bed til about 8am. Well we woke up around 1, he had to go take care of something for work and me and Sell and Rich took off. We had exchanged numbers and what not.

So then, on Monday night Sell, Rich and I were out and Alex text me and shell told me to tell him to come over to the bar. But he said he had work today cause he was going out of town Wed. morning. So Rich took me phone (Alex an Rich are best friends) and he was texting him and whatnot telling him to come down to the bar and stuff. Well when i got my phone back i just told Alex we would chill on Thursday after he got back.

The next day Tuesday (Yesterday) me and shell were at work, and Rich was texting shell, he was at alexs house. Rich said that Alex felt bad about the night before (Monday) and shell text back "what about it" and rich said "he feels like shes reading too much into the situation" and shell said "what situation" Well he ended up not ansewring and just telling us to come over. So we went over but the sub. never got brought up we were just kinda hangin out. Alex and i didn't say much to each other.

So i guess i am confused about what he means. Because he knows that Rich had my phone the night before (Mon) and there really isn't a situation. I just have no idea what he means. I haven't talked to him at all today.

[nuttychick]

Lol I think I have deciphered the message


Maybe he doesn't want his friend to know everything about his relationships with his girlfriends?
maybe he is not really wanting a relationship?


.. just give him space to contact you without the other two being around...

[barrel_gurl31]

But why is he telling me that im reading too much into the situation, thats what i do not understand?? Is there really even a situation here....??

[cunnilingust92]

well i would have to know a little more about the way you and him interact.
and see if the relationship is horizantal or vertical. being intoxicated may have complicated this even further(it could have been the alcohol talking
instead of him, he might not be interested at all now) besides
never get drunk and have sexual inter/outercouse
alcohol is a central nevrous system depresent
which makes it extremely hard to climax.
ok let me stop beating around the bush.
did you enjoy the sex?
did he enjoy the sex?

but anyhow he might have a gf
or he could be scared of what you think of him.
but of course you should have a talk with him alone without
any friends belive me its hard to talk intimentely
while someone's watching (it's hard enough without anyone)
but i wish you the best of luck my dear

thank you

if you have anymore questions please
feel free to ask
and i hope i was helpful

[barrel_gurl31]

Well, to start off ha ha. I enjoyed the sex a lot. And by what i saw and heard he did too. And i know he doesn't have a girlfriend. But he doesn't seem like the type that would be scared of what i think of him...idk

But my thing is right now i do not want to feel like am bugging him or all over him so i dont want to text him...I dont want to push him away. I actually like him a lot. So i dont want to be all over him about the subject and whatever so i do not know what to do. But i do want to talk to him about it.

[cunnilingust92]

HE might have thought of it as a "one night stand"
i really hope not but its a possiblity
i do wish you the best
tell me how it works out

[barrel_gurl31]

I really hope not too. Cause he seems like he is interested. But then like not so much at the same time. I have no idea really...guys are so confusing...

[cunnilingust92]

haha i was thinking the same thing about
women

[barrel_gurl31]

Ha ha ha....so what do you mean about the relationship bein' horizontal or vertical?

[cunnilingust92]

well in psycholgy a vertical relationship is a relationship between eg: student-teacher
parent-child and really any relationship where one or more of the parties are
more dominant.and a horizontal relationship is pretty equal.

p.s you sound younger than me how old are you exactly?