my new boyfriend says that he is doesnt like sex soo much..

[jackiem]

[[COLOR="black"]SIZE="4"]i met this wonderfull guy 2 month ago and we start dating 1 month ago, i really like him and we seems to get well together.this is the good part
The bad part is when we have to make love: the things doesnt come smooth and natural and it is very unconfortable the fact that he can not find the right position!

i have tried to take the lead, beeing on top, but he told me that i am to rought and he find it very painfully!!!

this is the very first time when i dont enjoy sex

what do i have to do to make the things running smoothly and me and him can enjoy having sex together???[/size]x[/color]

[nuttychick]

Get rid of the huge Text if you want an answer .. it is annoying and childish

[CrackBaby]

ignore the previous post, it is childish to be so anal when someone is in need. what horrible advice and so on.

make sure that he ejaculates during sex and he'll start enjoying it. i dunno what kind of guy doesn't enjoy sex, i mean does he jerk off ever? do you suspect that he might be gay?

let him take you from behind (doggy style) and he might enjoy that as he can go as deep as he wants and as hard/fast as he wants too.

[Brandye]

Another of Crack's puerile and ignorant posts.

[CrackBaby]

what the hell is ignorant about that. if he's getting hard but not enjoying it, he should get more control to get himself off. you're just arguing with me for the sake of arguing.

[Ephemera]

i dunno what kind of guy doesn't enjoy sex, i mean does he jerk off ever? do you suspect that he might be gay?

I think your problem is here, Crack. If you can't find the problem there, then there's nothing to be done.

In any case, to the original poster, please edit your post so it is easier to read.

[EvilEvilKitten]

He needs to seek medical help.

SEX SHOULD NOT HURT

Since it does, he needs to get himself checked out by qualified medical professionals. His hormones may not be quite right. His genitals may not be quite right. What's going on in his head may not be quite right.

Regardless of which answer is the correct one - he needs to see a doctor ASAP.

No sex until after he has.

[Clarinet Phil]

EEK is right of course. I mean I have an aversion to physical intimacy, well any kind of intimacy, and...well....it's because I have very unpleasant sort of problems that deserve the attention of a professional. He could have hormonal level problems.

On the other hand, he could simply be asexual, and it will just have to be something you'll have to deal with, or...not.

I mean if he doesn't have a problem with his 'lack of libido', then really there is nothing that you're going to be able to persuade him into doing.

[speeddemon98]

Find someone new

[CrackBaby]

great advice people...