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Old 01-07-2009, 09:09 AM
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theres a girl that has liked me for about 5 years and ive never really been that into her but im not sure, I dont really have any other girls in my life should i go out with her and give it a chance or would that be a bad idea? I dont want to hurt her but im not really sure if I like her or not, please help
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Old 01-07-2009, 10:52 AM
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So long as neither of you is going to get hurt from it I can't see why not.

My ex girlfriend liked me for years before she finally convinced me to go on a date. We ended up spending 5 years together.

Just make sure she knows how you feel and don't promise more than your willing to give.
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Nothing ventured, nothing gained.

Isn't this what dating is all about--going out with someone in order to learn more about her/him? Some dates last one time, others two or more, others a lifetime.

I think someone forgot to educate you in how to find women and what dating is supposed to accomplish. Dates do not begin and end with the first warm body who expresses an interest in us. Dating is a process to learn more about what humanity has to offer us so that when Ms./Mr. Right does come along we are better able to recognize that person. Dating exposes us to lots of characters, personalities, quirks, values, likes, dislikes, etc. Go for it.
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Let me get this straight - she's after you and you ARE NOT opening your arms wide and welcoming her in??? Are you insane??? Have you any hormones at all???

In situations like this: learn to say YES!!

Because later on, you will be smacking yourself upside your head thinking "I should have". Trust me, for men, these chances are EXTREMELY few and far between!
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Old 01-08-2009, 05:55 AM
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One you knock back is one you will never have..

Worst case scenario -- you have a bit of fun and get another name on your resume.

Best case -- blossoms into some sort of fairy-tale ending love story.

Can anyone say win-win situation..
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Old 01-08-2009, 07:21 PM
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or even worse scenario: she's a looney and he's in for it!

but that's rather rare
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pfft you serious man?

If you have no better alternative in hand then she is your best option.

As long as your dating style doesn't rely on spending tons of money on girls what do you have to lose?
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