how to not seem needy

[ASCW]

Originally Posted by EvilEvilKitten

You have to be a whole person in your own right with a satisfying individual life before you can ask anyone else to join with you.

This post is absolute GOLD. It essentially sums up a very long post I was about to make.
@Original Poster: You're asking how to not SEEM needy. This is a problem in it's own. Because it implies that you are needy but you need to trick and deceive other people otherwise. Which leads me to ask, how long do you intend to keep up a lie? How long to you intend to make them think that you're something you're not. If you feel the need to trick people about who you are; then you need to take a good long hard look in the mirror. Figure out what it is about yourself that makes you so insecure and then start working on THAT before you try and trick girls into dating you.

[KMB]

You know, it makes me feel bitchy if I'm too pushy, needy (if that's not the same as pushy forgive me) mean, or mad at my boyfriend.

All I want is what's best for him and me of course. But at this moment I'm worrying about how I can make him feel alright or at least happy.

He's so loving to me about how I'm feeling and I want to return that.

[EvilEvilKitten]

KMB - please stop your roller-coaster. You being responsible for your emotions and he being responsible for his makes for a much better and stronger relationship.

[19SweetKisses91]

Neediness is NOT the way to go.

Dont always go for the hot girls. There are girls out there who are hot in there own way. Personality is key in a girl. Also in a guy.

Show her what you're like. But dont show off- girls like guys who are cocky, but not ones who are assholes.

You have to be friends before you start anything. That is the foundation for any relationship!

It might be long, but it'll be worth it! :]

-Leya

[EugeniaBozena]

You should clear each and every thing with your girl friend. and share your view. don't get hesitation and aks her. go ahead.

[EvilEvilKitten]

Yegods - stop this "clear it w your gf/bf" stuff!

He/she is JUST a gf/bf, NOT a husband/wife.