Riding

[pbc4159]

Hi-Hi! I have a major problema and I need help. I'm not a virgin and I've been told I'm pretty good in bed, but I'm not confident about 1 thing: being on top.

Whenever I got on top of my bf, I always leaned over him-I never sat up straight. The one time I tried, it felt uncomfortable. Not to mention when I bounced up & down I felt silly, like I was doing a whole lotta nothing. I was kinda flexible, but it just didn't feel right...like I didn't have enough room to grind...I felt stiff & like I was doing a whole lotta nothing. Was it because he was a bit on the wide side or b/c I haven't been able to do a split since I was 12?

I'm single and sexless for now...just need some pointers for when I get back out there.

All thoughts & suggestions are welcomed!

[funinthesun]

There are quite a few threads on this. Try searching for "woman on top"

[Ducy]

Also no need to double post. If you look on the top of the forums there is a bar that says new posts....all members can click this and see every new post.

As far as advice, take those compliments about being good in bed and let them sink in. Then next time you get on your man, do what feels good, bounce up and down while playing with yourself, pin his arms so your breasts wind up being right in his face....do whatever you feel is sexy and if he dont like it tell him to get off his lazy ass and do it!

[pbc4159]

LOL-Thx, I like that part about telling him to get off of his ass if he doesn't like it. Nice!

[dancingdoc2]

If you have not already done so, please go to the Home Page and have a look at the variety of animated illustrations for the "Cowgirl" or Woman Superior positions. I agree, that the two of you should experiment and see what works. This position is very much a benefit for women as it places you in control of every aspect of intercourse.

Bouncing may not be where it is at for you, yet just adjusting your position may make all the difference. Grinding against his pubic mound should produce all the needed friction to build your arousal. Your man can steady your breasts if need be and do limited pelvic lifts that mainly benefit him yet add to your overall enjoyment, also.

Please do not be concerned about something being "silly". Who cares as long as you are both enjoying the moment, getting to a higher plane and becoming lost in the ecstasy.