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Old 10-20-2008, 08:59 PM
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So I just started to date this girl and I really like her. No, it is not the 14 year old, she is 18. Anyways, we just started dating and recently had our first kiss. The first date went horribly wrong but was still great. Anyways I was wondering, what are the rules for public displays of affection. We have not really done anything because our first date was Friday. In between classes today she asked be on another date. So I guess she is really in to me too. When is it appropriate to kiss her goodbye and such? I have not really been in any orthodox relationships so I am kind of sketchy on what is socially acceptable. My previous relationship where either closer to FWB or they were a secret in the beginning.
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i personaly say keep it to a minimum then more if thats what you want (this is my oppinion only) often times what can kill a relationship is to much at the begining
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If you've already had your first kiss, I see nothing wrong with a sweet good night kiss at the end of a date. Beyond that, watch her for signals. She'll "tell" you when she's ready for what.
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I read through the index thread. My problem is not with the actual mechanics of kissing, nor with a first kiss. Obviously after a date would be acceptable. My concern is more if I am hanging with her between classes with some of her friends, should I give her a kiss when I leave for my class. I use to give her a hug, but know that we are dating should I do something different. I also have a class with her. I am probably over thinking this.
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I read through the index thread. My problem is not with the actual mechanics of kissing, nor with a first kiss. Obviously after a date would be acceptable. My concern is more if I am hanging with her between classes with some of her friends, should I give her a kiss when I leave for my class. I use to give her a hug, but know that we are dating should I do something different. I also have a class with her. I am probably over thinking this.
No, do not kiss her in school...keep it as it was since you are just beginning to date and never know where you will be in another 2 weeks.
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But Sera what about at the movies in the secluded far back of the theater and say you are like 30 years old plus in age???? I told you we should STOP you are bad influence.
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But Sera what about at the movies in the secluded far back of the theater and say you are like 30 years old plus in age???? I told you we should STOP you are bad influence.
But that's for those in their 30's Dear! And well he has to see her in school and others for the next few years or so!!! Rarely run into many at the movies & in the dark! If I can be a bad influence on you..good. If you can be on me...good. I need some bad influences!
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It was fun though wasn't it?????????????????
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It was fun though wasn't it?????????????????
You bet what was your thoughts????? Yeah or Nay?
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