Would I be inviting myself?

[duh477]

where i live they have bar loops and I just turned 21, this girl I have gone out with twice is going on it with some of her friends i think. and I would like to go with her. Should I ask to go with her or something because I feel I would be interfering or trying to invite myself since she would be with her friends. I dont know if she would want me around her friends since we have gone out twice. I dont know what to do?

[sera300]

No, do not invite yourself. She may not be ready to have you w/her friends or she may consider this her friends nights out. However, you could say "that sounds pretty cool; I would like to try it someday". Ask her how she got this going w/her friends [organized]. Tell her to have a great time!

[duh477]

should I tell her that im thinking of going, and atleast that would give her an opportunity to invite me if she wanted. she asked me awhile ago if i was going

[sera300]

Originally Posted by duh477

should I tell her that im thinking of going, and atleast that would give her an opportunity to invite me if she wanted. she asked me awhile ago if i was going

If she asked you if you are going...do you have friends to go with? And perhaps meet up with her in groups? Or was she asking you to go with her and her group?

[duh477]

i dont know she just asked in general if i was going and i said im not sure, she didnt say to me that she was going with her friends thats just what I think, so should I ask her if she wants to go with me and give her the opportunity to say yes, or no im going with my friends?

[EvilEvilKitten]

Just go! Jeez! All this thought is unnecessary. Tell her you have decded to go (having thought about it) because it sounds fun.