Cat Fight ....Meow?

[xkatex]

So long story short this is how things are:
->Friend is dating a guy
->Guy has gorgeous bestfriend
->Best friend and girlfriend hate eachother
->Bestfriend trying to get boyfriend to come see her
->Girlfriend knows bestfriends friends and was told about how big of a "whore" she is eg. Sleeping with taken men etc.
->Boyfriend loves girlfriend but wont choose between the two
->Girlfriend doesnt like the fact that bestfriend is a slut
->Boyfriend wont believe girlfriend when told about bestfriend

What do you make outta this situation? She the girlfriend feel threatened about the bestfriends promiscuity? What should she do if boyfriend wont believe her? If you need more information thats fine, just would have been WAY too long if I explain the whole story.

-Thanks

[smallestoftheclan]

Have you seen The Hills on MTV?

[xkatex]

Haha nope but definately catch that drift

[smallestoftheclan]

It's amazing that some people can have such a hold over someone. To disrespect my family is to disrespect me and that is something I so would not tolerate.

[xkatex]

To what are you refering to?

[smallestoftheclan]

Who is anyone to tell someone else that this other person is a slut? How do they define slut? And if someone told my bestfriend I was a whore I would hope he would dump her ass.
And I would be confronting my, so called, friends. Who are they to be talking about me behind my back.
S hates L but dates H. So in order to break up the friendship between L and H, a rumor goes out about a video whos stars are L and her ex J. Now S has H under his thumb and L hates both S and H. S and H have each other and L has all their other friends.
S is nothing without H so he does what he does, even if that means being rude and crude to her family so that she doesn't dump him for good. Sad thing is other than a "S", she does nothing when she hears about his actions or even seeing it happen for herself.

[xkatex]

Oh i see what you mean now. Not very fammilar with the Hills but ya i get what you mean. I know this bestfriend personally and I do know that she "gets around" to put it in neutral terms and i can see why the girlfriend would be upset. She feels that the bestfriend would try to do something with the boyfriend just to spite her. But than the question comes in whether she really trusts the boyfriend. She says she does just not when hes around the bestfriend.

[Mr. Saint]

If a girl friend told me to choose between my best friend and her, I would choose my best friend every time. She should trust her boy friend not to cheat on her.

[smallestoftheclan]

I think she needs to get to know this bestfriend better. They are both girls so offer to do what girls do. A male and a female can be JUST friends. And just because a woman is considered loose, does not mean she's going to sleep with her bestfriend who is a male. And just because she doesn't like the girlfriend doesn't mean she's going to sleep with him to spite the girlfriend. The more she complains the quicker this relationship is going to end. You either find a way to figure it out or break up. A bestfriend relationship is not one to be messed with.

[sera300]

What to do? Best friends sleep together and get rid of the jealous girlfriend?

Usually, honestly, the girlfriend is history real fast since most men cannot tolerate another woman being so disrespectful of a friendship man or woman. Or the friend marries her [the g/f] and end of friendship. The more she carries on; the more apt he is going to blow her off for being a nag. Commonly, bluntly, referred to as "pussy-whipped".