Someone explain this

[Ducy]

So how is it that the more you know someone the more attractive they are? Like physically? I mean I met this girl and she was cute, but I didnt find her super cute, but the more I talk to her the more I find her physcially attractive, like as if the more I realize we have in common, the cuter she gets....

Now my question is WHY?!?!!? Is this why you can see some gorgeous women dating hideous guys and vice versa?

[lnt1103]

The chemistry is building. The more you get to know her, the more you're connecting with her. Don't question it, enjoy it

[Ducy]

Haha no I definitely am enjoying it, she is actually a really dope girl, cuz my friend caught me off guard when she said I thought you said she was ok, but now your saying that she's hot

Isnt chemistry such an amazing thing. I guess it wasnt such a useless class in high school ahaha

[goof'schik]

I think it's you're starting to see "her". I may not be a 10 on the outside yet a lot of my friends, male and female, tell me I am on the inside.

[Ducy]

I think you guys are definitely right. That may explain why I am stoked to go out with her monday night.

But I'm not really hoping for anything spectacular.

[goof'schik]

be a gentleman, open doors for her, pull out her chair, let her order first. and pay. lol did i write that?????

[EvilEvilKitten]

You are more comfortable. She is more comfortable. Therefore you are both letting your guard down and revealing more of yourself to the other. Simple.

[Ronudist]

It is simple but so so wonderfull that first rush when you realize your attracted to someone and that you find out they are attracted to you.

[raez]

Physical attraction has its place biologically and evolutionary speaking, but I think as far as deep attraction that we humans really feel on a conscious level is based almost entirely on how we find ourselves interacting with that special someone. Being able to click with someone personality wise is so important because we are so emotion oriented. So if someone has a fantastic personality that makes you feel really good to be around, then it only makes sense that its going to eventually influence how attractive we perceive that person to be. haha, when I first met my boyfriend I just thought he was kind of silly looking..all tall and gangly, no physical attraction at first whatsoever lol. Now though, I just love looking at him when hes lying next to me in bed, or wandering about in the nude as he is apt to do..lol I have to work to keep my hands off him when we're in public

[lnt1103]

So Ducy how did Monday night go???? Inquiring minds want to know.