Good Openers (aka Pick up lines)

[constantlylearning]

Just how does that permission thing work??

[Massdebator]

Originally Posted by constantlylearning

Just how does that permission thing work??

Hahahaha. Absolutely hilarious.

That aside, I feel like I can't post without contributing to the discussion, so...

I think the cheeky one-liners are best when used jokingly among friends, and I'm in agreement with madeye. Creativity is no more a trick than it is a way to express your own personality. If you've got the wit, by all means flaunt it. To be honest, the whole smiling for twenty seconds thing seems more gimmicky than the wit madeye suggests. Although, to be fair a good smile will carry one far. I wish I had something of my own to suggest, but I don't have a lot of experience picking up women I've never met. I'm in this thread to learn, because I certainly need to do so.

[constantlylearning]

Good smile???? don't forget about the good hair......LOL. Do cheeky lines
really work???

[Lost one]

Okay first off either don't drink or have just a little in you. What you can do is to make your own openers based on observations. See what shes doing, see what shes wearing, go for eye contact and smile first but don't stare. if you catch her eyes long enough and smile look away for awhile. Now using what you see or what shes doing think up something interesting or funny to say if you go in for the approach.

Now you can make pick ups on the dance floor with less lines, but be prepared to dance!

[constantlylearning]

I am feverishly taking notes please continue............

[sera300]

Originally Posted by constantlylearning

I am feverishly taking notes please continue............

Okay, and I am supposed to believe that???? LOL!

[madeye]

Originally Posted by Lost one

Okay first off either don't drink or have just a little in you. What you can do is to make your own openers based on observations. See what shes doing, see what shes wearing, go for eye contact and smile first but don't stare. if you catch her eyes long enough and smile look away for awhile. Now using what you see or what shes doing think up something interesting or funny to say if you go in for the approach.

Now you can make pick ups on the dance floor with less lines, but be prepared to dance!

I dont like this for the fact that your not being instictive. and will more likely to cause the average guy to chicken out or come off as fake.

Its not a brain puzzle, its an action and confidence.

If you believe your a fun person to chat with then it should not matter what the results of any enounter will be, head in the very second you get the idea "I want to meet that person" ask the first opinion based question or witty observation that comes to mind and be prepared to leave the interaction with just that and also be prepared for that person to immediately open the door for you to continue. It is usually more often than not that simple. If you get a cold flat response simply say "enjoy your evening" and walk away.

And in the case she does give you that open window continue along the lines of that opening question or observation. Try to keep the interaction soley based on that and this is when you use your smile. If a cute girl looks at you and you flash a big smile she will have the impression that she won you over with her looks and that you mostly likely give that great smile to any cute girl with a low cut top. Let a women feel like she earned that smile during conversation. Let it slowy develop as a genuine progression to her personality.

If you do this well, allow her to break the witty fun interaction and ask you the boring "vanilla" questions like "whats your name" and "where are you from". Any time a women ask these questions first you will have a better chance at getting that first kiss and date.

This last tip helps all you guys with the "fear of rejection" if you never attempt these vanilla questions you will keep the interaction at a point where you can decide the conversation is not going further and I can smile and walk away with 0 embarassment.

[constantlylearning]

Come on Sera..........are you a hard sell???

[sera300]

Okay CL & Madeye (you are back!). Here it is; we women do not need pick up lines if a man can speak intelligently to us, smile, be polite, and have a bit of humor. We are very receptive to those guys! The lines? Destroys the man.

If a man is interested ask for my number and call. Talk to me and it should be clear why I choose to go out; he does not have to make his case just have a strong sense of self.

[constantlylearning]

Ok, I have had to change my notepad