is this the way it is know????

[swal123]

i have just started dating again after a bad break up. im 33 years old and i have always been the shy one. prior to my current bf i have only been with two guys. i have only gave 2 blow jobs, one to each guy. So know two years later i have a new job and new friends. we have been going out a lot and lots of fun.

now one of my friends meet a couple of guys at a bar and they were really nice. sorry i'll try to make it short. My friend kim and i asked them over my place for the next night. the next day at work kim asked if i was ready for a hot night? i was like no they will come over and have a few beers!. we got talking and stuff and yes about sex. she said guys love shaved pussy? i was like WHAT. we agreed to were sexy clothes tonight. When i got home the first thing i did was to shave. That took a lot of time ( never done it). Kim called and said she's wearing a short mini skirt and to have me wear one too. Mine wasn't to short. the guys showed up. and we waited for kim. i called and she was on her way. the guys were so nice to me. to make a long story short; kim never got here (car broke down) and i had sex with both guys. i felt like a slut but i also enjoyed it very much.
The guys came over the next day and we did it again. Well after a week i was dating one of them (steve). i love doing things with him sexually. he also likes to show me off. he told me to please keep my vagina shaved ( he said pussy).

anyways
i have never done things like this and i would like to know if there is other women like me.
1. do all women keep them selves shaved?
2. has any woman have sex with two guys?
3. for the girls, does your guy ask you not to wear panties?
4. has your guy show off your body like lifting your skirt?
5. would you let your guy use a sex toy on you?

thats all i have for now. if anyone could help me please reply i guess
thanks sam.

[constantlylearning]

Is this question solely directed at the older female readers??

[swal123]

no anyone who reads this thanks

[constantlylearning]

What exactly is your question??? What are you wanting opinions on (male
prespective here).......

[CleverName]

Well if you are looking for a comitted relationship, this does not sound very wise at all.. It sounds to me like these guys are taking advtage of you, showing you off as if you were an object.. Do you know anything more about them other then your friend met them in a bar?

If you are a swinger, then kool, go for it but otherwise, I would stay out of this relationship.

Yes, many women shave mainly because many guys prefer it that way. (not all)

There are people who are comfortable enough in their relationship with their partner to introduce a third person into their sex lives. I don't personally think thats such a good idea, but to each his/her own.

My gf won't wear panties if she plans on surprising me, I never really ask.

I would never ever ask my gf to lift up her skirt to other people to show off. That seems extremly demeaning, and disrespectfull to women. Not to mention it would probally mess with ones self esteem.

Lots of girls like sex toys, my gf has said it might be fun to try it out one day.


If you are looking for a relationship, this guy is not for you. If you are looking for sex, then sure go for it but I doubt much good will come from that kind of relationship.

If you are into a swinger lifestyle I would learn more about it before jumping into it like that. Not that I really know anything about it myself.

Thats all just my Opinion.

[weasel]

1. do all women keep them selves shaved?
some women do, some women just trim and some just let it be natural, if you don't want to then don't and if he doesn't want to be with you just for that fact then it would have never worked out

2. has any woman have sex with two guys?
yes some have, like i said if you want to then do it, but don't do something you don't want to

3. for the girls, does your guy ask you not to wear panties?
again don't do anything you don't want to, if this works out maybe have it as a special surprise and tell him during dinner to start things off, but again if you don't feel comfortable going commando than don't

4. has your guy show off your body like lifting your skirt?
i can't answer that

5. would you let your guy use a sex toy on you?
hey it could spice things up but to keep with my theam, if you don't want to then don't

[dlb]

i have never done things like this and i would like to know if there is other women like me.
1. do all women keep them selves shaved?
Of course not. You only recently began didn't you? Some men like shaved others, like myself, prefer a bush.

2. has any woman have sex with two guys?
At once? Plenty have. I happen to know a few, hehe.

3. for the girls, does your guy ask you not to wear panties?
I'll just answer for several of my GFs and my wife-yes.

4. has your guy show off your body like lifting your skirt?
We had a dress up party last Friday, The women dressed as paroquial school students-I lifted my wife's skirt often, when she wasn't liifting it herself.


5. would you let your guy use a sex toy on you?
I have used sex toys on women. They love it.

[EvilEvilKitten]

Are you sure you're 33? Are you okay?

Anyway:

i have never done things like this and i would like to know if there is other women like me.

1. do all women keep them selves shaved? NO not all women
2. has any woman have sex with two guys? YES even simultaneously
3. for the girls, does your guy ask you not to wear panties? NO - never
4. has your guy show off your body like lifting your skirt? NO - that would be inappropriate
5. would you let your guy use a sex toy on you? YES

Of course there are other women like you. Lots of them. They find a boyfriend and then they do whatever he wants them to do.

Why have you never done anything like this?

[Suki2007]

Congratulations on finding a new and exciting way to celebrate and explore your sexual desires! To answer all of your questions, many do and many don't. All that matters is that you are having fun and being safe, and that all parties involved do not get hurt. If you and your new BF are happy with the way your relationship is, then just go on being happy!

To be a little more specific on your questions: I generally keep myself shaved (though I wax, not shave). I have never had sex with 2 guys at once, however I wouldn't be opposed to it. Have I ever been asked to not wear panties? Yes, but there isn't much need for that as I do go commando plenty enough. I haven't yet had a guy try to show off my body such as lifting of my skirt, but I wouldn't be opposed to it in the appropriate place. I also consider myself a sex toy advocate, so a very strong YES to using sex toys.