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Old 07-15-2008, 05:13 PM
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my gf and i have been going out for about 6 months now and since about 2 months ago she shows now affecion towards me whatsoever i really dont know what to do. a little peck from time to time and also a hug is normally what happens. i just feel like she doesnt wanna spend time with me anymore,she doesnt reply to my texts etc and she has free credit nearly all the time. i was at hers the other day and asked if things were ok between us and she said yes and we scored with each other so that leads me to think she still likes me but what can i do to make her be more affecshionate all i want her to do is put her arm round me from time to time and everytime i try to do it to her she shrugs me off i dunno what to think plz help plus ive got her coming round to mine tomoz hopefully if she agrees and doesnt bail out on me
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Old 07-15-2008, 05:51 PM
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TELL HER HOW YOU FEEL

Translation:
Say all this stuff to HER instead of US. We can't answer your questions about how she feels about you-only she can.

Sorry, I know that's a little blunt. But I believe in the concept of always going to the horse's mouth. She's the only one that knows what's in her mind and heart. Don't be the macho guy that doesn't flinch at anything. Open up to her and ask her to open up to you.

If that doesn't change anything, or if it does for a bit and then it goes back to this way, ditch her.
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Old 07-15-2008, 11:59 PM
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Is you is or is you isn't? Translation: Are you really an item, being b/f and g/f?

Is she normally a demonstrative person or rather reserved in public?

Regardless of the answer, my guess would be that there is something wrong with the relationship. She has checked out emotionally. If she is unwilling to fix it and simply states that all is well then perhaps you need to inform her what you need from her and if she cannot or will not meet your needs then you might as well check out--body mind and soul. Move on and find someone who wants you for you and wants to show you that she has you ever gentle on her mind to steel a phrase from a Glen Campbell song.
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Old 07-16-2008, 06:14 PM
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yeah she doesnt like public stuff like holding hands anymore and she came round to my house today, i thought it was just gonna be me and her but then got a text tellin me that im bringin round the dog round so she came round for 1 hour and a half then went to her grans, all i wanted was sdome alone time but she decided to bring the dog around i was like wtf then didnt get a hug or kiss at the end
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Old 07-16-2008, 06:56 PM
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Yea but you guys can't hang out w/ a dog too?
Not really like it's a "3rd wheel"
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Old 07-16-2008, 07:55 PM
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Well, sir, it sounds like she wants something different from the relationship than you do. Take your cues from her behavior--sounds like a friendship only from her point of view.

Take it or leave it seems to be the recommendation I'll offer.
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