Need Help :(

[creamybeaver]

My Gf/Ex finished me last nite.

The night before i had her and a few mates over for the nite. Everything went well up until we went to bed. I took my Gf's phone and went in the toilet to read her texts. You see all nite she was textin this lad and bein sneaky about it so it got me worried. There were no texts out of the ordinary really....just ones sayin she misses him and she loves him and she wants a big kiss when he gets back from holiday..........she hasn't seen him for 2 months due to reasons. The other thing is she's always textin lads and it gets me worried bcos sometimes i see what they have been sending. I know i shouldnt be looking at her phone in the first place but she's always textin someone...and 90% of the time its a lad.

Anyway now she says she cant do it anymore because of what happened. But in my opinion its nothin we cant sort out. I have made promises but she's having none of it. I need some advice because i avn't got a clue what to do!!

[curious_woman]

If she's telling another boy she loves him then its probably over. Move on.

[lustforlove]

Yeah come on if she's not willing to try you shoudlnt be either, she the one talking to other lads not you.

[EvilEvilKitten]

Your self-righteous sanctimony is REVOLTING!

Of course she's not going to remain with you. You have proven yourself to be unworthy. You can promise whatever until you're blue in the face - she has no reason to trust any of it so she won't.

You behaved in a jealous, possessive, insecure, and immature way - ruining your masculine image. You're not a man, you're a small boy.

DO NOT DO THAT AGAIN.

Do not ever let such antics "worry you". Never take her phone, read her mail, look into her computer, etc., etc., etc. When she's with you. no one else exists. Stop doing 'her and a few mates' - it is her and you and no one else.
Rivals, and other sundry persons have no importance. The ONLY thing that concerns you is what is developing, or not, between you two. Focus, focus, focus. You always want to appear cool, confident, and adorably fun to be around.

Got it? Now get out there and get a few new girlfriends.